Is it okay if I cross-dress?

[AveryGamerDude]

I'm a guy, and I love to cross-dress. The kind of clothes that girls wear that I like to wear are skirts, dresses, and panties, to be precise. The problem is that my family gets upset when I wear female clothes. My little brother thinks that it's "gay". My mom thinks it's weird when I do it, but only doesn't like it when I wear panties, which is ironically the female clothing I like to wear the most. Is it okay that I do this? (P.S. I'm straight)

[strangecharm]

There is nothing wrong with it. If it's how you feel comfortable then you should!

For some people it's just a way of expressing themselves. It also has nothing to do with your sexuality

[Fire Fly]

No, it shouldn't have to have a meaning. I mean clothes are chlothes. Women get a lot more choice than males and if you like women stuff then you like women stuff to wear who cares. Maybe just don't anything else to them about it and wear it anyway and then they'll change and not saying anything as tent won't be evoking a response.

Hope it goes Okay.

[Ballerina123]

I can't see a problem with it.
Of course it ok.
It's ok to do what ever you want in life that makes you happy (as long as it not illegal or course).

[Epicene]

Yes, it's fine! Like others have said, it may or may not have anything to do with sexuality (and if there were a link for you then that is still fine). It sounds like your family don't know how to make sense of it or have some prejudiced views. It might help to print some stuff off the internet for them to read.

[sherlock holmes]

Just chiming in to say yes- it's perfectly fine!

I always thought it strange how females can wear men's clothes and it is viewed as normal, but when guys wear female clothes they get odd looks.

[crazykat]

I think it is okay too. You have to do what makes you happy and makes you feel comfortable

[nowhereman]

Personally, I think it's ********* awesome for you cross dress! Men in women's clothes is basically me fantasy, it's such a turn on for me (though I'm also jealous cos they usually manage to look better than me lol!) so yeah, it's ok to do whatever you want and whatever makes you happy (again, once it's not illegal) and people can either learn to accept it as part of you or it's their tough luck. I also think you should take photos and send them to me :)

[nowhereman]

I always thought it strange how females can wear men's clothes and it is viewed as normal, but when guys wear female clothes they get odd looks.

If you have a second, listen to the first few spoken lines in this song. I don't get it either, clothes are just clothes, why should it be such a big deal. I love guys in make up too, so freaking hot.

For a Girl (http://youtu.be/ZihngWYHQUU)

One time I made my ex wear my pink silk nighty in bed and than he got all and cos I told my friend. I was like 1) girls talk and 2) what was the big deal, it was just clothes?

Also another ex kind of half dressed up for me for Halloween, even though he was really not into that kind of thing, but he did it just cos he knew how much I liked it, which was sweet of him. I didn't even believe him when he said he was going to, until I actually saw him!

[AveryGamerDude]

Personally, I think it's ********* awesome for you cross dress! Men in women's clothes is basically me fantasy, it's such a turn on for me (though I'm also jealous cos they usually manage to look better than me lol!) so yeah, it's ok to do whatever you want and whatever makes you happy (again, once it's not illegal) and people can either learn to accept it as part of you or it's their tough luck. I also think you should take photos and send them to me :)

I'd be more than happy to send you photos! It might be a few days or something, though. But I'll try to do it for you! Do you want me to send it to you via email or something?

[skooter]

ok i saw your thread and i had to interject , do whatever makes you feel like you are comfartable , be that panties or skirts or dresses corsets , and this is kinda hard for me to say .b/c i was forced to wear ladies clothes and was abused by multiple people , but i dont see the issue you are a human with actuall feelings that should be respected and if you want to dress up like a lady then dude your doing more than most people in this god damn ****ed up world would ever do , your being true to yourself andyou are more real that is amazing i love and respect you for that , furthermore its a fine line between that and sexual deviance , i think there is were ppl get that taboo outlook on it wear what ever you want because your clothes are not who you are , simply just decorations of your body your temple ,, hats off to you man , plus a skirt looks good on anyone .lol but in all seriousness please be carefull b/c there are sick peple out there who want to take away your personal freedom . and kudos for being honest with yourself ... im straight to and girls often ask me to cross dress but due to my abuse i cant , not that i wouldnt before that happened b/c **** is comfortable ........be you . all that matters