long distance relationship question.
This might be a bit of an odd thing to ask, but..
My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged....the thing is, he's thinking in terms of weeks. As in, getting engaged in a matter of weeks (we've been talking about it for a while but the timing has been wrong because of issues I was dealing with...things are good now for both of us).
We want to get married in a year and a half-ish.
The thing that I'm worried about is, we both plan on going to grad school (him for music, me for psychology), and there are no guarantees as to where he'll end up. There's about a 50/50 chance he'll end up at a different university than me.
I want to marry him either way, but....I have to wonder, is a long distance marriage even doable?
I've also thought about transferring universities to go wherever he ends up.
When he proposes, my answer is yes either way, but as for the possibility of long distance...how do I deal with that?