Not to life, to my dad.
Brief history: my dad sodded off before I was born, never wanted to know me, failed to make child maintenance payments and had to be taken to court, then when I'm 16 he writes and says hey, I'd like to get to know you.
At the time I was being abused by my step dad so I was excited at the thought of my real dad rescuing me, so we started writing and when I was 21 we finally met. We started meeting up every now and then to get to know each other, and then he suddenly decided to move to Wales
We try to keep in contact but he barely ever makes the effort to visit me when he's down this way, and he rarely calls. After a while I decide I'm quite angry about his treatment of me and I tell him I want to sever contact for a while. He makes no effort to contact me whatsoever for a year. Finally I call him because I feel I need to say my piece, so I tell him he's been rubbish and he says he knows and regrets it, and that he'll come and see me in April for dinner.
March, April and now May is passing and no word from him at all
I feel like I've had my fill of his laziness, and while I have decided not to bother calling him again, should I send him a letter telling him so, making it all final? I feel so angry and let down. But then, its hard to officially say goodbye to someone you always hoped would step up and be there for you.