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12-07-2020, 07:35 PM
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*super hugs you all*
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Contains abuse - Definitely deserve it!!
In the past I have been yelled at by my dad and hit by my dad and I definitely did Deserved it my friends said (in high school) that i was abused but..... isn’t abuse when you don’t deserve it??
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19-07-2020, 08:38 PM
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Pathologically flamboyant
Join Date: Nov 2010
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What makes you think you deserved it? No one ever deserves to be abused in my opinion.
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No other sadness in the world would do
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20-07-2020, 01:24 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: UK
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No, you don't deserve it. Even if you were badly behaved it didn't mean you deserved to get hit. There are better ways to discipline. I went through similar and it took me a long time to realise it wasn't my fault, Yes I was badly behaved but it wasn't my fault that I got hit. You are in charge of your actions and an adult should know better.
Hope your ok and able to reach out to somebody about this.
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Life can be beautiful if you let it.
Step back, breathe and take it in
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24-07-2020, 11:33 PM
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*super hugs you all*
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My dad and I was always fighting with each other and he would be angry with me because I was born with boarder line retardation and would yell and call me stupid and idiot..... so it is my fault...... I was born that way...... im not normal..... im nothing........
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28-07-2020, 10:08 PM
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Pathologically flamboyant
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Why is it your fault the way you are born?
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No other sadness in the world would do
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08-08-2020, 09:43 PM
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*super hugs you all*
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Ive thought that same thing alot and ive came to the answer because its my existence and I should have been a normal person and not stupid........
Last edited by Darkwings44 : 08-08-2020 at 09:45 PM.
Reason: Forgot to put alot
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09-08-2020, 12:15 PM
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Pathologically flamboyant
Join Date: Nov 2010
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But how is that your fault? You can't help being born with learning difficulties. And having learning difficulties is nothing to be ashamed of, we are all born differently with our own strengths and weaknesses. That's never a valid reason to treat someone badly.
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No other sadness in the world would do
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25-08-2020, 10:48 PM
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*super hugs you all*
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I deserved to be treated like that....... Im worthless.......... he was right...... im stupid and a idiot that’s what mental retardant means........
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26-08-2020, 09:59 PM
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Pathologically flamboyant
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You're not worthless.
So in this country we don't use the term 'mental retardation' but I know that it means someone with a significant learning difficulty. And none of medical textbooks say that someone with a learning difficulty deserves to be abused in anyway. You just have a brain which works a bit differently and that just means that you sometimes will need extra support, not any sort of unkind treatment.
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No other sadness in the world would do
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30-08-2020, 09:35 PM
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*super hugs you all*
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Thank you for what you said!!!!!!
Ive been told that I was stupid and a idiot for a long time it’s hard to believe anything else but thank you so much for what you said!!!!!!
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25-10-2020, 05:24 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2020
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you are none of them things
you most certainly do not and did not deserve it and it certainly is not your fault
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25-10-2020, 09:13 PM
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*super hugs you all*
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thanks... its hard not to think of myself as anything but what my dad told me that i was.....
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just another floating iceberg in this ocean we call life...….
Am I a failure from birth
Is misery what I deserve
Am I just so void of love
That I'm never good, never good enough
~citizen soldier-never good enough
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25-10-2020, 10:28 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2020
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I get that its hard to not believe something we have always been told
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26-10-2020, 08:49 PM
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*super hugs you all*
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i know...
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just another floating iceberg in this ocean we call life...….
Am I a failure from birth
Is misery what I deserve
Am I just so void of love
That I'm never good, never good enough
~citizen soldier-never good enough
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