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Old 06-06-2015, 10:39 PM   #1
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Contains sexual abuse - Feeling pressured

Hi
i was made to sleep wit someone around 2 1/2 months ago
since then life has changed
i havent reported it
but i am currently maybe being charged with wasting police time
i feel like the only way to not be punsished is in fact to prove that someone made me sleep with them.
this isnt something i want to do why should i have to ?
it should be my choice and i feel like i dont have one .
i feel so stuck sorry

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Old 07-06-2015, 11:00 AM   #2
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Sorry you were forced into having sex with someone, that's such a difficult thing to experience.

I'm afraid I don't follow though- why are you maybe being charged with wasting police time?

Do you think you would feel better if you did report it?



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Old 07-06-2015, 08:14 PM   #3
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Hi thanks the police got called to me and i couldnt talk to them they want to charge me because i wont report it
I wouldnt feel better reporting it but its the only way the police would not charge me is if i prove i was made to sleep withsomeone . the only way i can do it is by giving them the samples i had taken at the hospital.
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Old 14-06-2015, 06:58 PM   #4
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That doesn't sound like an appropriate way for the police to behave, especially as you weren't even the one to call them in the first place (if I've understood you correctly). You could take a look online for a rape crisis organisation (e.g. http://www.rapecrisis.org.uk/index.php if you are in the UK) and seek advice and support from them on how to handle this police situation.

Sorry I didn't reply to this sooner. How are you doing now?



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Old 29-06-2015, 07:00 PM   #5
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Hi thanks sorry

i err have been reffered to the cps not sure if its good or bad ?

but im not coping to well other wise sorry

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