I want to know if there have been any successful or unsuccessful relationships here on RYL as i am going into one myself, so spill, how lucky have you been?
There have been several successful (and not so successful) relationships that I know of.
I've never been involved in one properly, but I've liked people on here, but nothing has ever happened with anyone! (woe!)
So any one who's looking...;)
Haha, no seriously, I think generally a lot of people seem to be happy and make it work. I think the only problem is if you want to talk about a problem you don't feel comfortable talking about with your partner, i.e if it's about them, or it's an intimate issue maybe, then you might find that difficult.
Haha, no seriously, I think generally a lot of people seem to be happy and make it work. I think the only problem is if you want to talk about a problem you don't feel comfortable talking about with your partner, i.e if it's about them, or it's an intimate issue maybe, then you might find that difficult.
You definitely will get beaten for suggestion our relationship isn't a success. Which is ironic because me beating you would be one way of defining an unsuccessful relationship.
"I would be almighty in my own world of art, even if I had to paint my pictures with my wet tongue on the dusty floor of my cell." -Picasso
"No, painting is not done to decorate apartments. It is an instrument of war." - Picasso
'I have scars becuase I have a past; but they, like my past, do not define my future'
i had a horrible relationship with someone from here, we were together for two and a half years almost and lived together. thankfully that ended 3 years ago.
but i do think ryl relationships can work out.
Den fuldkomne kærlighed,
Kan ikke eksistere blandt ufuldkomne
Its good in a way that he knows a lot about me because there would be no nasty surprises, and it makes it a lot less awkward.
E.g having a baby and the baby being taken away because I'm mental.
Now that would have been damn awkward to have to tell someone face to face and a near guaranteed relationship killer!
So its good that he knew about it all before and still loves me despite that.
Am I even making sense?
I'm fine! Totally fine. I don't know why it's coming out all loud and squeaky, 'cause really, I'm fine!
Its good in a way that he knows a lot about me because there would be no nasty surprises, and it makes it a lot less awkward.
E.g having a baby and the baby being taken away because I'm mental.
Now that would have been damn awkward to have to tell someone face to face and a near guaranteed relationship killer!
So its good that he knew about it all before and still loves me despite that.
Am I even making sense?
I have nothing remotely sensible to contribute to this thread but, Beckie, you are not mental.
Kathryn and Peter got married. I remember when they got together... moons ago.
I'm going to assume you mean me and there isn't another pair of us :P
But yes me and Peter met here and it was very successful we are married and having a baby.
I think it depends on the people and if you are both in a really bad place you can be dragging each other down but it has it's benefits like knowing a lot about each other before you start. Plus if you are shy like both of us then it gives you chance to get to know someone which you might not get in person because of being so shy.
You're entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret. All the best people are.
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