Hi :)
I firmly believe in the idea of "It's not my story to tell".
I can tell any secret I want to my friends, as long as its mine to tell. If somebody else tells me something about them- especially if it's really sensitive and personal- then they're trusting me with it to keep to myself. They are the only ones who get to decide who they want to tell it to. It can be my best friend- family, even- but if I know something personal about somebody that they've specifically told me not to tell anyone, then I have to respect that, because it's not my story to tell.
It doesn't make you a bad friend at all. In fact, it makes you a really good one. The fact that you didn't tell your best friend about it doesn't make you a bad best friend.
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