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View Poll Results: Which term do you use?
Self Harm (SH) 37 45.12%
Self Injury (SI) 11 13.41%
either/or... both 30 36.59%
neither 4 4.88%
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Old 14-05-2008, 07:33 PM   #1
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Terminology *possible SI trigger*

Do you say self harm or self injury?



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Old 14-05-2008, 07:45 PM   #2
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I say both just in different contexts. I use the term "self harm" when talking in person on on the phone but when it comes to the internet or instant messengers I use the abbreviation "SI".






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Old 14-05-2008, 07:45 PM   #3
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I usually use the term Self Harm in conversation
but since using this site I've been using the term Self Injury
but usually this is when I'm writing I tend to write SI
rather than Self Injury or Self Harm.

I find Self Injury to be more of an American Term for some reason
Don't know why, just feels american



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Old 14-05-2008, 07:49 PM   #4
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never said self injury to be honest!





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Old 14-05-2008, 07:57 PM   #5
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I find Self Injury to be more of an American Term for some reason
Omg, so do I - have no idea why either lol






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Old 14-05-2008, 08:11 PM   #6
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Uhm, I say self harm, even though the technical word for what I do is self injury, I just find it less of a mouthful/easier for other people to understand.

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Old 14-05-2008, 08:16 PM   #7
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I don't generally use either but in 'official' conversation, as it were, I use Self-Harm because I find it more relatable



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Old 14-05-2008, 08:18 PM   #8
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Neither. I say 'hurting myself'.

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Old 14-05-2008, 08:19 PM   #9
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I say both just in different contexts. I use the term "self harm" when talking in person on on the phone but when it comes to the internet or instant messengers I use the abbreviation "SI".


Same here



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Old 14-05-2008, 11:09 PM   #10
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I always say self harm and on here just say SH. My social worker last week used the term 'self cutting' which I've never heard before. I thought it was a bit strange, not sure why though. Maybe just because it was a new term.




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Old 14-05-2008, 11:18 PM   #11
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I say Self Harm..



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Old 14-05-2008, 11:32 PM   #12
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Uhm, I say self harm, even though the technical word for what I do is self injury, I just find it less of a mouthful/easier for other people to understand.
Yes.

I write SI though.

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Old 15-05-2008, 12:05 AM   #13
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Im norwegian, so I use the norwegian word which can be translated to both self injuring and self harming i guess. But when im on here i usually just write SI.





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Old 15-05-2008, 03:34 AM   #14
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i use self injury and abbreviate it to SI. in my research paper my teacher told me to keep one and use it throughout..but i had to use self-mutilation..and that is my least favorite term for it like it pisses me off.



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Old 15-05-2008, 05:48 AM   #15
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Uhm, I say self harm, even though the technical word for what I do is self injury,
There is a difference? I thought SH and SI were the same thing... just different terminology.



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Old 15-05-2008, 10:17 AM   #16
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There is a difference? I thought SH and SI were the same thing... just different terminology.
I think self-harm is a more 'general' word that encompasses (sp?) all forms of harming oneself, where as self-injury is a bit more specific. That's how I read it anyway but have confused myself now with too many terms!

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Old 15-05-2008, 10:19 AM   #17
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self-mutilation..and that is my least favorite term for it like it pisses me off.
It annoys me too, no idea why though! I think it's because it just sounds...gruesome.

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Old 15-05-2008, 10:31 AM   #18
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(Yay, someone who spells my(our!) name like I do!)
So there are two "amialone"s on RYL... lol... made me do a double take at the posts...



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Old 15-05-2008, 10:33 AM   #19
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Lol, yeah probably should have made that clearer! Someone who spells Ashleigh like me!

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Old 15-05-2008, 10:35 AM   #20
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Lol, yeah probably should have made that clearer! Someone who spells Ashleigh like me!
ohhh ok



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