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Old 23-08-2017, 03:52 AM   #1
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hello- need someone to talk to

my cutting is probably the worst its every been and I've kinda not been eating... i just get really easily overly stressed (school is starting soon, sexuality stuff etc) and i need to know its going to be OK, b/c it doesn't feel like it is. i cant talk to anyone irl b/c i don't want friends/ family to know about this and worry about me. i know they'd just bug me to eat more (which i do NOT want to do) and try to check my legs for marks...

P.S. i don't plan on doing anything that will put my life in danger, it's not that I want to die.

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Old 23-08-2017, 11:46 AM   #2
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Hello, welcome to RYL. I hope you find it helpful here.

It sounds like things are really stressful at the moment and it must be awfully isolating and lonely when you feel like you can't share your problems with your friends/family. I'd encourage you to make a thread in the self harm or eating issues board to seek some support with those issues and talk through the things that are causing you stress.

Take care, and feel free to send me a PM if you have any questions.

I know it feels hopeless right now, but things will get better :)



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Old 23-08-2017, 05:11 PM   #3
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Hi, welcome to RYL. I hope you find it helpful here. Please get in touch at any time. Take care.





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Old 24-08-2017, 06:55 PM   #4
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I know what you mean Artplug, people would worry about you, but the only person who can help you most is yourself. No-one can make you eat more or stop cutting more than you. It's all about self help.

There is plenty of self help advice on the net, & log in to RYL a lot, because it's helped me loads over the years.



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Old 25-08-2017, 08:27 AM   #5
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Welcome to RYL. We are a very supportive community here, so I hope that you find some understanding in a nonjudgmental place- but also, hope from people who can assure you it does get better- especially those who have gotten through school and are significantly into their recovery journey.

While it is hard to talk to people irl, I would recommend starting a thread on the self harm discussion/ serious discussion forum so that you can talk more and maybe feel more comfortable to get support irl in the near future.

http://www.recoveryourlife.com/index.php?categoryid=62
Check out our First Aid Advice section also.

You deserve to be happy and safe.





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Old 25-08-2017, 07:50 PM   #6
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Hey and welcome to RYL Artplug. I am really sorry you aren't in a happy place right now and struggling. I really hope this site helps you out and if you ever need to talk or vent please feel free to message me.

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Old 06-10-2017, 08:21 AM   #7
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Welcome to ryl, hope you find what you need here.

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