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Old 14-06-2007, 04:12 AM   #121
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Flashbacks are laaaame. I have better things to do with my time than deal with those. Why won't my brain understand?

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Old 14-06-2007, 04:14 AM   #122
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theyre things that arent there and i know theyre not there. im used to seeing them, i have since i was 9, but lately theyve been vivid, ive been able to feel them, and i feel really upset or mad or whatever i would feel if it was actually happening. and once i couldnt remember which one was real, this or that... it only happened once but it was horrible. its my boyfriend i keep seeing, i love him so much, i hate seeing him doing those things..

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Old 14-06-2007, 04:19 AM   #123
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If you're not ready to do those things then you should tell your boyfriend that. If he's a good guy he shouldn't force you to do anything scary. And if you're having flashbacks here's some grounding techniques to bring you back to safety. We can even do some in here if you like.

http://www.m-a-h.net/support/article-grounding.htm

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Old 14-06-2007, 04:25 AM   #124
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he didnt make me do anything! he is great! im just SEEING and FEELING him do things... and im not getting them now im just scared, it was so much clearer than any others ive had, it felt really real, it scared me...

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Old 14-06-2007, 04:27 AM   #125
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But it wasn't real, just remember that.

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Old 14-06-2007, 04:31 AM   #126
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i know, it wasnt real. but it felt real.. but it wasnt real! it wasnt real!

*cries*

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Old 14-06-2007, 04:34 AM   #127
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*hugs abba* It'll be okay honey, just remember when and where you are. You're safe and no one is hurting you. Look around, stand up and feel the ground under you. You'll be okay honey.

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Old 14-06-2007, 04:42 AM   #128
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*nods and walks around a little* im calming down its just.. i dont want this to become regular. i dealt with seeing things, and feeling flashbacks, but feeling things? its too hard...

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Old 14-06-2007, 04:44 AM   #129
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You can do it sweetheart, you're doing well just by bringing yourself out of it and try to talk to people for help. And why not print out those groundings and keep them handy if you need them at anytime okay? You should be able to make yourself feel safe whenever.

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Old 14-06-2007, 04:47 AM   #130
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*nods* thankies... *cuddles teddy*

im rocking irl, greeaaat heh

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Old 14-06-2007, 04:51 AM   #131
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Hehe, you're cute. *gives you a blanket to make sure you're warm* All comfy now?

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Old 14-06-2007, 05:02 AM   #132
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sowwy, mum made me go hang out the washing. *snuggles into blankey and nods*

how are you two doing, assuming ama is still here

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Old 14-06-2007, 05:04 AM   #133
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No honey I think Ama left. I'm doing okay, just in bed, snuggled with my doggies.

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Old 14-06-2007, 05:14 AM   #134
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oooh doggies!! *pets*

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Old 14-06-2007, 05:14 AM   #135
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Their only response is snores =P

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Old 14-06-2007, 05:15 AM   #136
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I'm kinda tired (it's past midnight here). You gonna be okay on your own now?

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Old 14-06-2007, 05:22 AM   #137
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yeah ill be alright... thanks so much for your help. goodnight :)

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Old 14-06-2007, 05:27 AM   #138
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You're welcome sweetheart. *hugs* I'm sure we'll see each other in here agian sometime soon. And by the way what's your real name?

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Old 14-06-2007, 07:05 AM   #139
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sorry, i left when you said you were going. dunno if youll see this, but im Emily, or em/M/emmy. ill have to find out yours hehe :P

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Old 14-06-2007, 07:20 AM   #140
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*hides under carpet*
i hate memories.i need to play.
*squishes abba/m.=]*

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