I honestly dont know what is available in terms of home tests, if you can walk to a chemist or walk in centre if you have travel health insurance to ask for advice that would be good.
How long has this been going on now?
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I was thinking any symptoms. Generalised pain has so many causes, try not to be alarmed. Will you be comming back to england soon?
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i only ever lived in paris so no...
:(
in summer next year, for reading festival but thats it :|
i'll try sex with a condom and see if it still hurts, if not, ill know thats what it is.
if its still sore ill leave sex alone for a while and if i still don't improve ill get checked...sound about right?
so we walked, into the darkness,
and i have not missed sunshine since.
you challenged everything i knew
& i was happily undone.
now let me forget you.
do you use any kind of lubricant? condoms are lubricated to ease things along....
it could be friction if you don't use lubricant or you are not providing your own... so to speak.
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oh..i was lubricated. didn't use lube i was fine..i don't have problems having sex, it just gets painful afterwards.
if there is discharge, could that be the semen coming out or is it most likely thrush?
can i still have sex if i have it, just use a condom?
and does anyone know how long the allergy might last?
it's still quite sore :(
so we walked, into the darkness,
and i have not missed sunshine since.
you challenged everything i knew
& i was happily undone.
now let me forget you.
Your a bit of a puzzle my dear. All I can suggest is to us condoms. If your on top avoid up and down motions but rolling hips ( as this can hurt your cervix) Try and use feminine washes to keep the PH right maybe salt baths. Make sure you are fully lubricated before sex. And ask you guy to be gentle.
I don't think anyone really knows what it is until you try these things, it could be that you are allergic to semen but the only way we know is if you use condoms. You see
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Allergy's can last for life. However I think it is unlikely you are allergic to semen from what you have said as it seems to be intermitent and it is very rare for people to be allergic to bodily fluids (unless some sort of drug is in them but you have said it has occurred with multiple partners). As you have given the impression it seems to have only occurred when you're having sex using a lubricant but hasn't without then try without lubricant for a while (it may be easier if you do a bit of fore-play first) and see if that helps as it could well be that.
If not using lubricant helps then that is probably the cause. If it's not then maybe try using condoms and see if that helps.
Allergy and reactions are not the only cause though. It could be a multitude of things and this can affect you more afterwards as the endorphins produced during sex (which are natural painkillers) wear down.
The discharge, if only straight after sex is likely to be your own natural discharge which is excreted more during fore-play and sex (or when you just feel 'turned-on') to lubricate the area mixed in with his semen; not all of it will stay in your body, a high proportion of it would come back out which is totally normal.
i wasnt using a lubricant sorry, i meant i had no problem producing it naturally. and there are no medicines im taking that could cause dryness or anything like that.
it's still coming out now, two days later.
i'll get checked quite soon probably.
i was cleaning it with cold water to sooth it and I saw there was white stuff all around it, not coming from inside. but it was attached to the skin and it felt like i was just pulling off dead skin, i also found a raw patch somwhere...
blisters? the only thing i know they are from is herpes and allergies...
so we walked, into the darkness,
and i have not missed sunshine since.
you challenged everything i knew
& i was happily undone.
now let me forget you.
when u have sex u get small cuts and grazes in your vagina caused by the friction.... the semen is probably irritating ur vagina as its still raw, this happens to me and my sister too....
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but now there is discharge, burning when i pee, sensitivity like bruising and it's been two days.
i think it's thrush. feels very raw....
gona get an over the counter i think :(
so we walked, into the darkness,
and i have not missed sunshine since.
you challenged everything i knew
& i was happily undone.
now let me forget you.
I'd seek a doctor as soon as possible this could be a number of problems, thrush being the main one. But I think if you can at all try and get some sti tests done as well just to rule that out. As you can have things like clamydia and they can go away and come back. If youre having trouble with a finding a doctor often youth clinics or specialised GUM clinics are held which can help you oout
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Yeh, I'd go to something like a sex health clinic nearby and get them to check it because of the discharge and the pain when urinating. It could be that as mentioned above, you may have a small wound which could now have got nfected. It may also be that you have a UTI and this just happens to have occurred at the same time and that can give the same sort of pain. Make sure you keepdrinking plenty of water/ drinking Cranberry Juice in case it is a UTI.
You can (at least in the UK (sorry, I don't know what it's like on the continent)) be anonymous at a sex health clinic or give them a false name and it is a totally confidential service. You could also of course just see your regular doctor.
i told my dad but i told him i've been in pain a while..made up a story anyways.
ive had UTI before but it's definitely not the same here.
this is itching constantly, white discharge, burns even with contact with water...i'll see if i can get checked.
i've been drinking and eating probiotic yoghurt lol.
i'm not sure about the skin peeling, because i certainly have a raw patch but then i have stuff peeling off and i don't know if it's skin..
im sorry this is so gross :S
so we walked, into the darkness,
and i have not missed sunshine since.
you challenged everything i knew
& i was happily undone.
now let me forget you.
