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Old 03-09-2019, 05:04 PM   #981
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I don't think so

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Old 03-09-2019, 05:10 PM   #982
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There are probably loads of reasons that might or might not be the true reason. Could it be that it's your feelings that make you think this way?





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Old 03-09-2019, 05:36 PM   #983
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I don't think so. Everyone else is cared for and I'm not.

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Old 03-09-2019, 07:00 PM   #984
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What does cared for look like to you?





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Old 03-09-2019, 09:56 PM   #985
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Making sure I'm okay and talking to me and trying to help me

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Old 03-09-2019, 10:00 PM   #986
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Like your psychologist does? Or the doctors when they take time to review you? Or the assistant psychologist when she sees you at weekends? Or the nurses when they talk to you and give you meds etc?

Perhaps having a think about what you want to talk about and how people could help might be useful for you and the staff. I would imagine that if staff are asking less now it’s because you always refuse to engage unless it’s on your terms, with nurse you like or psychologist etc.





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Old 03-09-2019, 10:26 PM   #987
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That really is nothing like it is. You aren't here so stop misjudging the situation and thanks again for your lack of understanding and unhelpful response. Next time I will just ignore you.


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Old 04-09-2019, 09:45 AM   #988
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Do you find writing down how you feel easier?







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Old 04-09-2019, 10:01 AM   #989
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Hi thanks for your reply. I wrote everything down on my phone that I need to talk about (I did that in preparation for the psychologist but never actually got to talk about the serious bits). I would get too embarrassed writing things down and giving it to them and they could then use that as evidence and ive got a tribunal coming up I can't have anything going against me

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Old 04-09-2019, 01:34 PM   #990
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Do you think that perhaps the assistant psychologist didn't come to find you because you walked out of group, and so she thought maybe you didn't feel like interacting or wanted to be left alone for a bit?





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Old 04-09-2019, 04:03 PM   #991
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No because she said at the beginning of the group that if anyone leaves early or struggles in the group that she would probably come and see them afterwards.

Just had my review. Still no leave or discharge planning. They won't take me off my depot.

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Old 04-09-2019, 05:16 PM   #992
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Did you discuss what you wanted to in the review?





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Old 04-09-2019, 11:18 PM   #993
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Yes I did. I explained about not getting one to one time with staff and that I should be allocated to staff I have a good relationship with. I told them I wanted to come off my depot and they said not at the moment. I discussed my sleep so they added mirtazapine as an anti depressant/sleeping aid. I told them I felt I got less input from staff psychologists and OTs than other people get. I asked for leave but they said no. I asked for discharge but they said no. I think that was about everything.

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Old 05-09-2019, 01:14 PM   #994
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It sounds like they are trying, within the limits of what they think is safe and right for you. I know what you mean about being allocated staff you get on with and that is a good way to recovery in my opinion but I know that services don't 'like' people to be picky about who supports them. Did you have the Mirtazapine last night? How are you today?





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Old 05-09-2019, 04:01 PM   #995
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I think the doctors are trying in their own weird way. They just need to start to understand that I have trust issues. Yes I did. It did seem to really help me sleep. I went to the Emotional Coping Skills group and now I'm in my room. The group went okay. I'm feeling anxious about my parents bringing my stuff up cause I doubt they'll want to see me and even if they do I'm not sure it's a good idea. I'm also upset as they have lost the present I was going to give to my favourite old nurse tomorrow as she is coming up for someone's discharge meeting and I really wanted to give it to her in person but my mum can't find it anywhere. I'm so upset about it.

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Old 05-09-2019, 05:17 PM   #996
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I'm glad you had a better sleep with the Mirtazapine and hope it continues. Well done for going to the group, do you feel like you learned anything useful? I hope it goes alright with your parents. Could you give your favourite old nurse something else if your Mum can't find the present, or make her a card/write a letter?





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Old 05-09-2019, 07:03 PM   #997
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I can't cope with this agony my dad just came up and got up and left within 2 minutes I feel so unloved with everything that has happened with them I can't stop crying

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Old 05-09-2019, 07:48 PM   #998
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That does sound really upsetting, especially since you're in hospital just now. Have you spoken to any of the staff about what happened?





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Old 05-09-2019, 08:35 PM   #999
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No I haven't they don't care or understand

To make things worse I've had to block my mum and dad by number and on social media because they have been really upsetting me

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I'm sure staff cares about you. I can see how you can feel that they don't, however, support you're currently receiving seems to indicate that they do, in fact, care, so you can talk to them when you are upset.


I am sorry about your parental situation. That must've been tough for you.

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