ARRGGGHHHH

[Saerie]

I'm still so upst about being the last one to be 18. August ****ing 19th. EVERYONE is going out apart from ME. I CAN'T see friends very much at all. This is the convo I had with my boyfriend on MSN just now


Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
you k?
Saeriiiee! says:
no, quite down
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
how come?
Saeriiiee! says:
just this whole summer and going out business
Saeriiiee! says:
i'm going to see friends 'every so often'
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
as usual
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
sarah, you're just going to have to accept it
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
there is NOTHING we can do about that AT all
Saeriiiee! says:
i know :| and i'm not saying that there's a solution to it
Saeriiiee! says:
but, i'm allowed to be upset about it
Saeriiiee! says:
just because there's no solution, it doesn't mean i'm going to cheer up all of a sudden!!
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
but i'm getting upset at you constantly being upset
Saeriiiee! says:
it's very hard to accept something like this
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
i don't like it when you complain about this day in, day out
Saeriiiee! says:
it's just hard for me to accept :(
Saeriiiee! says:
summer = friends and having fun, yes?
Saeriiiee! says:
i'm hardly going to get that. so why is it so hard for you to understand why i'm not accepting it easily?
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
and i've already told you, we will, as much as we can
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
we've had this conversation hundreds of times now
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
i'm getting very bored of it
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
anyway I have to go now
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
I will talk to you later
Tom...Thought I ought to bare my naked feelings, thought I oughtta tear the curtain down says:
<3 xxxxxxx love you
Saeriiiee! says:
bye



Why doesn't he understand how hard it is to accept something as big as this? It's SUMMER FFS :(((

[perfection is a flaw]

aww hun being left out sucks *hugs*
maybe you could ask your friends if they could do something where you dont have to be over eighteen
x x x

[Saerie]

It's such a big group of friends, and they're not like that. It's either pub/clubs or house parties. Which according to Tom will be 'every so often'... :(

[surprising mystery]

My birthday is in August as well and this year I will be 18, I know how you mean, but honestly, pubs are so over-rated and not actually very exciting, as for clubs.. I dont know.. obviously but try to look forward to it cos its not like its not going to be soon.

As for seeing your friends, why dont you organise a shopping trip or mini-break, camping? a barbeque? or a meal out somewhere. There are pleanty of things you can do, that are actually a lot more fun. What about going to a theme park, its getting warmer so you can do more outside now.

Take care, try to look around this and find other stuff to do, I bet some of your mates would really appreciate doing something different.

X Marie X

[Saerie]

Yeah, I'll try to organize things..
But they're all lads. Maybe the theme park idea would appeal to them.
Thanks

[surprising mystery]

Cool, I personally think the theme park would be right up their street :P Guys always like a bit of dare and excitment!

Hope it all goes well :) Take care and PM me anytime and I will brainstorm some other ideas, as I have a fair few guy mates as well and shopping never goes down well... not the sort of shopping i like anyway :P

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