I'm so sorry for all of your losses. Grief takes time...it's a process we all go through at different rates. For some it takes months, others years. Allow yourself to cry, laugh, scream...whatever you're feeling. Just be patient and gentle with yourself as you're going through this.
And when you do start to heal, remember that is okay, too. Sometimes people feel guilty when they start to feel better, like they're forgetting the person. You won't forget them, and I'm sure they would want you to be happy.
Are there other people around you that can talk with you about the people you've lost? Sometimes sharing memories can be very comforting. Or maybe you could make a scrapbook or an album with pictures of the good times?
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