:@!!! *Mentionts SH*

[just_different]

sorry for posting again
but im angry and worried and upset and every other emotion you could possibly think of right now!!

I have just realised that whilst i was out yesturday my mum has been through my stuff and taken my SH 'tools' which means shes been through all of my draws.
She just ignored me this morning when i went downstairs.

im not ready to stop SH its whats keeping me going atm
i dont know how to cope without it
she should understand that! shes a therapist ffs!!

i dont knwo what to do now
i think i may be homeless sooner than i think

Im sure my mum goes through my stuff too. She has taken dangerous stuff from me a chucked them away. You need to understand that she is only doing it because she cares and wants to protect you but your mum also needs to understand how its making you feel. I think you should talk to her in a calm way about how you feel about this. Take care xx

[Animad]

You should talk to her about this.

At the moment, if she didn't already know about the SH she may feel somewhat shocked/ surprised that her daughter is doing this rather than just one of her patients (/clients) and want to know why you're doing it/ if it's something to do with her. She'll be unlikely to know what to say to set off the conversation though so maybe just talking to her about her going through the things in your room and asking why may be really helpful and then it could go on to other things if needed and you could also say that you'd appreciate her not going through your stuff in the future.

The best thing to do though is to act maturely and just to sit down and talk; you don't know what's going on in her head same as she doesn't know yours so you do need to discuss this.

[just_different]

she did know i had been SHing
and i can't talk to her because shes ignoring me =[
she completely blanked me this morning