Jealously

[damocles23]

Hi. For the first time in a while I feel I'm developing feelings for another person. I've never felt comfortable flirting with a person that I like. Mostly because I felt it was demeaning for the other person and because I felt it would make things weird. Thing is I have another friend that doesn't have this problem and I've come to resent him because he flirts with everyone. Including this person that I like and even me sometimes and I'm tired of that. What should I do? I've been emotionally numb for so long and now I don't know what to do. I've just been knowing pain for all this time since I'm a victim of abuse and I don't know how to deal with this.

[nonperson]

You don't have to necessarily go out of your way to flirt with them. Maybe just try to get to know them better as a friend and see where it goes?

People do get tired of overly flirty people and often it's all just a show so don't feel like there's competition.

[damocles23]

It is getting annoying and after a lifetime of being genial I've been feeling like a doormat