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Old 12-03-2009, 12:12 AM   #81
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Tis probably the most frustrating that my MOTHER wants me to wear both realy girly, and REALLLLLY slutty(reavaling, lowcut, tight) clothes, whereas i'm happyset in jeans, tshirts, the odd dress (don'task...) and NOT SHOWING SKIN...


Oddly, i'm mostly comfertable with my sexuality.. honestly i don't think that should be an issue (yeh, im bi.. so neyh neyh) but..
boy/girl/boy/girl/both....

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Old 14-03-2009, 10:17 AM   #82
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Old 16-03-2009, 03:18 AM   #83
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I'm somewhat in your position [crazy]girl. I went through just about every option of what I could possibly consider myself- from fantasies of jerking off like a guy, to just wishing I could cut off my breasts (which I still wish, but that's partially because they're so big ;_; ). You could be androgynous, genderqueer. Then again, I do know FTMs who had no interest in actually changing their body through the whole surgery process and are just male in mentality.



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Old 16-03-2009, 10:28 AM   #84
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yeah. i'm male in mentality. i used to wish SO much that I could be a guy, so sexually things would be easier. Now I'm becoming interested in F to M drag. Anyone esle do F and M drag?



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Old 16-03-2009, 08:12 PM   #85
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I do [yes yes ignroe the avatar. she's pretty so there]

Funnyly enough, no one really notices.

Meh, prolly just too weird that seeing me crossdressing isn't any bigger a jump than the neon stuff i have too
[putting it together gets some looks though....]

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Old 17-03-2009, 12:33 AM   #86
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Lately I've been thinking I like girls..
But.. how can I know for sure?
Or, can I not know at all?



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Old 17-03-2009, 12:49 AM   #87
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Lately I've been thinking I like girls..
But.. how can I know for sure?
Or, can I not know at all?
it just takes time, really.

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Old 17-03-2009, 01:00 AM   #88
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Time and lots of thinking?
I suppose that's the answer to everything..



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Old 17-03-2009, 03:13 AM   #89
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yeah, pretty much haha.

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Old 17-03-2009, 03:14 AM   #90
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Well, how did any of you guys come to the final 'decision'?



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Old 17-03-2009, 03:27 AM   #91
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i wouldn't call my decision "final." basically over time the "evidence" just keeps piling up until you just have to admit it, lol. At least, that's how it was for me. Nothing big or dramatic...just realizing that i've never seen a guy in my life that i've been attracted to, and admitting that i am attracted to women. it was confusing for a while, but after some time things are much clearer. Basically it just took time.

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Old 17-03-2009, 04:05 AM   #92
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it's been there since high school. i denied it for a while but it's always been there, you know?



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Old 17-03-2009, 04:12 AM   #93
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same here, i went through years of denial

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Old 17-03-2009, 04:44 AM   #94
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still not sure how i feel about it. definitely not out.



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Old 18-03-2009, 12:49 AM   #95
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Meh, ive' kinda always known...

just the whole 'you're a girl and girls like boys' mentality of 5 yrs of christan school kinda forced me to push it aside

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Old 18-03-2009, 05:00 AM   #96
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yeah iv always reckond f to m drag was hot... you know? like male suits and tied back hair where you cant actually tell if theyr a real pretty guy or a good looking girl... heh lol guess everyone has things they think about that they think are sort of weird... buit that's why we can think... to keep people out of things that could embaras us :) plus i like the LOOK of guy but not so muc hthe features +side to F to M drag :D



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Old 18-03-2009, 05:33 AM   #97
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Old 18-03-2009, 05:41 AM   #98
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i like to think i dont 'fall in love with' a reproductive organ, i fall in love with people
you put it perfectly kona!

and lol aimee...me tooooooooo!


I don't think any age is too old to be questioning your gender, it is a complicated thing. I think we are lucky here on RYL to have so many people who understand that it is a real, painful, and difficult journey for some (i say some, because reality is that it isn't difficult for everybody).

I am currently struggling with many aspects of my sexuality and i understand greatly what it feels like to be classed in a minority.

For those who are interested, two movies i found helped me were the Kinsey Movie (i think that's what it's called), and Boys Don't Cry (be warned this movie may be VERY TRIGGERING and is 18+ rated). They will not answer your questions, but they help to open your eyes and mind to things


take care, and if you are really struggling look up your local gay/lesbian/queer phone counseling service and give them a call!




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Old 19-03-2009, 04:48 PM   #99
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i was bi...for awhile...then i decided to go Les.....

cause guys are to EH..the date....either they just want *insert word*

or care enough not to have much fun



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Old 19-03-2009, 10:49 PM   #100
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did you "choose", or did you finally just stop denying it?

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