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Old 04-06-2011, 08:11 PM   #1
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Do you think...

...that it's ever right for someone to commit suicide?




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Old 04-06-2011, 08:13 PM   #2
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I think it's a really, really sad thing to happen. Yet I don't judge people who have attempted or commited suicide negatively because I know that they don't want to hurt anybody, but feel as if it's the only way out, the only thing left to do, or feel as if they can't stop themselves. But I think suicide should be prevented as much as possible.

I hope you're not talking about yourself? :(

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Old 04-06-2011, 08:16 PM   #3
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I think 'right' is a difficult word to use... Justified? I think sometimes it can be 'justified'. But not quite right...

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Old 04-06-2011, 08:17 PM   #4
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Right for who?

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Old 04-06-2011, 08:23 PM   #5
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Right for who?
For someone who has wanted it for a long long time and despite having a good life regrets not doing it earlier, and it feels 'right'.



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Old 04-06-2011, 08:32 PM   #6
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It's not really a matter of it being right it causes a hell of a lot of pain and it sort of brings the person who does it no chance to see if things get better.

I've been a victim a few times from grief via suicide it's excruciating atleast it was to me and the first suicide was my uncle I'm still in the anger stages of grief 4 years down the line as I see the impact it caused everyday my uncle used to take untrainable labs under his winfg and turn them Into working dogs as he had a way with them and i work in a welfare centre where he took on some dogs and weve got two pretty out of control labs and i curse him not being here to help and ive seen the relationships in our family torn apart by it my family is unbearable ever since but I don't judge him for doing it i just dont think i can forgive him yet atleast or the other people around me who've done it I can't explain how much pain their deaths brought me. Im not being cruel just truthful I've attempted but I don't think I'd ever complete it as I've felt and seen the hurt and difference it has on the world a few times over and it never gets easier. Knowing their hurt and even them being suicidal doesn't make it easier nothing makes it easier. But it doesn't stop people taking that choice and there's no right or wrong I can't judge that choice..

If you're feeling suicidal please talk to us or ask for help there are other ways to come through this things can't get better if you're not here you don't feel the relief as you're not able to. The people you know wont be fine its never fine. Please just talk to us.


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Old 04-06-2011, 08:37 PM   #7
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I know I would be hurting people and I know it's selfish, really, I know. But I regret not doing it before (when it would have hurt no one), or rather trying harder to do it before, I think it would have been smarter than putting people through the living hell of the past few years.

I just want to know if I have that right.

I'm confused.



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Old 04-06-2011, 08:56 PM   #8
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I dont think it's smarter because even with the chaos of these last few years the people around you can see an ending and will be so proud when those days come to an end you will all be able to relish in the better days. If you die it's snatched away from you and gives them no hope and leaves them in a lost state of reality you have years to come where if you fight through things will get better those around you are hoping those days will come and will fight for you until they come. It's not just letting them down you're letting yourself down why don't you turn it around instead of wishing you'd done it then when no-one cared make it well I have people who care now this gives me something worth living for.

You do have the right it's your life but there are mote things in life than there are death. Why is it you want to die Hun? I'm sure it's something we and you can get you through




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Old 04-06-2011, 09:15 PM   #9
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I think I'm a lost cause tbh.



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The only way some one is a lost cause is if they think they are you should talk to some to try and find the reasons why you're not a lost cause and the potential you have maybe ask one of the people who care about you to write down good things about you. There is hope out there. But you need to challenge this thinking first as it sets you up for more harm than good Hun also keep a diary on here or in a book qnd try to write one good thing each day utterly anything small or big.*hug*




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Old 04-06-2011, 09:36 PM   #11
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Thank you.

I've got a thread in mental health with a letter that says whats been happening at the minute.

I've got things to be grateful for it's more that I seem to always get back to this place and I'm sick of being a burden on people. I'm sick of being sick. I'm sick of feeling this way. It would be simpler if I was gone.



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Old 05-06-2011, 10:01 PM   #12
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I'm sorry to bump.

I'm struggling & very suicidal & need some support if thats ok. Reasons to die:

- Between continuing the pain to the people around me by causing them stress/ hurt/etc. and death, death is the lesser of two evils.
- I don’t think the people around me understand themselves that they would be better off without me. I think that they are immediately scared by the idea of my death but they would get over it quickly, be able to move on with their lives and be much happier.
- I’m sure that everyone would say otherwise but only out of obligation and/or confusion. Not because it’s true.
- I'm pissed off at myself for not committing suicide 4 years ago when I tried and failed because it wouldn't have hurt anyone or made the slightest dent in the world. I don't want to look back in another 4 years and realise I've been hurting even more people.
- I was in Intensive Care 2 months ago and I know the same thing is going to happen again. I would rather die than re-experience it. I think it's happen again in about a month. I need to commit suicide before then. There is nothing anyone can do to help me with this.
- I'm generally a lost cause.

These are surely good enough reasons to go in peace??



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Old 06-06-2011, 09:49 AM   #13
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Please be careful Katie. I hope you're doing okay.
However many reasons you think you have right now, it's not enough.
There are people like me who care about you.
Look after yourself.



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Old 06-06-2011, 08:57 PM   #14
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Thank you.

You'd all be better off without me though...



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Old 07-06-2011, 08:01 AM   #15
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That's not true. There are always people that need you.



It doesn't matter where you come from; it matters where you go.
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We won't all be here this time next year,
so while you can take a picture of us.
We're definitely going to hell,
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