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Old 15-09-2019, 12:49 AM   #1101
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I desperately need to talk.

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Old 15-09-2019, 01:33 AM   #1102
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What do you need to say?





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Old 15-09-2019, 10:42 AM   #1103
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Just everything that's in my head. Luckily there's a good HCA on today so I'm talking to her in about an hour for a one to one. I'm a bit nervous.

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Old 15-09-2019, 10:51 AM   #1104
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It's understandable that you are nervous but I hope the HCA is helpful. Be brave!



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Old 15-09-2019, 11:25 AM   #1105
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Thank you. There's so much to talk about so I hope we get the time to talk about stuff. Also my parents are coming at 1 as I asked them to come to try and sort things out with them and make peace with them. I'm anxious that it might not go well.

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Old 15-09-2019, 11:42 AM   #1106
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I hope you can talk about the things you need to talk about. Good luck with your parents.





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Old 15-09-2019, 01:18 PM   #1107
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Thanks I managed to talk about everything I needed to with the HCA. She was really nice and understanding.

I'm just so anxious about my psychologist appt tomorrow and seeing my parents today.

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Old 15-09-2019, 02:36 PM   #1108
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I really hope it goes okay today with your parents and you get the outcome you'd like. Well done on talking to the HCA too.







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Old 15-09-2019, 04:36 PM   #1109
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Thank you. My mum came. I'm not really coping tbh

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Old 15-09-2019, 05:24 PM   #1110
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How did it go with your Mum? What is it specifically that you're having trouble coping with?





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Old 15-09-2019, 05:59 PM   #1111
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I imagine the meeting with parents was very anxiety provoking but it was brave to arrange it. Hope it went ok.





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Old 15-09-2019, 06:53 PM   #1112
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Thank you. It was all just very emotional and upsetting. They said they aren't gonna get involved too much anymore.

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Old 15-09-2019, 07:32 PM   #1113
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That is a really hard thing to be told. I hope you can reach out to someone when you need it.

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Old 15-09-2019, 07:59 PM   #1114
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Thank you. I'm so anxious about the psychologist appt. I don't know what to do. I don't want to prolong things or mess things up even more for me. I don't know what I want anymore.

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Old 15-09-2019, 08:05 PM   #1115
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When I’ve been in that situation it’s sometimes felt paralysing to decide anything at all. But in deciding nothing then it’s also kept me in the same place. Eventually, it got to the point where I decided there was nothing that was going to happen that would make me feel worse, and therefore honesty was the best policy. And opening up was shit, but it also started the path to feeling better in the long run. And the more you engage, the more support you will be offered. I hope you make the right decision, whatever you decide that to be for you.





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Old 15-09-2019, 08:16 PM   #1116
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Thank you. I hope you're right.

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Old 15-09-2019, 10:39 PM   #1117
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I honestly don't think I can face her.

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Old 15-09-2019, 10:41 PM   #1118
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Can you figure out why that is?





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Old 15-09-2019, 11:17 PM   #1119
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I'm scared. I don't want a confrontation. And I know I'll sound silly because it sounds like a contradiction

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Old 16-09-2019, 09:01 AM   #1120
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What's the contradiction?

Can you try and reframe it so that it doesn't have to be a confrontation? Explaining how you feel and what's going on for you can be done reasonably and calmly, and she won't react angrily or be upset by that.





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