Coping with a relationship ending

[sunshine100]

I've been in a relationship with my bf for 2.5 years. We've lived together the last year and a half, and he is the most normal, well balanced individual I've ever met.

However, he seems to have 'had enough' of me making mistakes, particularly if I've had a drink (i.e. getting a taxi back with people I don't know that well). He keeps treating me like I'm child who can't look after them-self.

Nothing drastic has happened, there's been no massive argument or disagreement, no one's cheated, but I feel like our relationship might be coming to an end.

Does anyone have any words of support, advice or encouragement as this is a really difficult time?

Thanks

[ontheverge]

Hey Sunshine. Have you talked to him about how you are feeling? Like things might be ending? Sometimes just communicating your worries to your partner opens up a space for change. I hope you two are able to work through things.

[Cacoethes]

As above, it might be good to talk things out with your partner and see how you could work things out x

[sunshine100]

Thanks, we have tried talking it over but I'm starting to think that we're fundamentally different. He's become incredibly intolerant, and I'm only human so I'm not perfect.

[Jacinthe]

It seems like he's too worried and care much about you, as you know too much love would bring problems and in one way it's good because he's accepting the way you are. Don't get me wrong here, you have to change yourself.

[Cacoethes]

have you ever tried any kind of counselling, like Relate?
you've been with him a long time, so it might be good to try some more things to try and help and find out what's wrong
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