That sounds like a really difficult situation. You're entitled to leave a friendship if you feel uncomfortable in it and I personally would also struggle to be very close to someone who thought it was OK to cheat as it's something I feel strongly about, and if she's going to talk crap about you, the she's not being a good friend.
I agree that your response probably wasn't ideal, but it's easy to say things we regret when we're angry! How about apologising to her for losing your temper but saying that you need some distance in the friendship because you really struggle to deal with the choices that she makes? With the other friends, are you keen to remain friends with them?
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