People get drunk and do stupid things, it happens..it's happened to me thats for sure. It doesn't make you a bad or terrible person..it's just a part of life and I'm sure your housemates understand (or will do when the dust settles)
I'm..ok? feeling a little low and delicate today though.
Life can be beautiful if you let it.
Step back, breathe and take it in
*cuddles* Know why you're feeling low just now? I hope you can look after yourself and do something nice for yourself maybe. Here if you want to talk and sending you lots of love xx
& thanks, you're right. I don't know, I'm just feeling really awful right now. But it will be fine. And I will attempt to be more sensible in future!
"I know you're sad, so I won't tell you to have a good day. Instead, I advise you to simply have a day.
Stay alive, feed yourself well, wear comfortable clothes, and don't give up on yourself just yet.
It'll get better. Until then, have a day."
These things happen, and I hope you feel better super soon. Don't let your housemate judge you.
Leigh, has anything in particular happened? You know where we are
Ritzi, how's things?
"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. Make us all feel wonderful. We'll never forget."
Star love they're right people do get drunk and do stupid things - everyone does it atleast once. Don't let your housemate make you feel worse or judge you I guarantee she's been foolish when drunk atleast once. Can you do something nice and soothing for you tonight? *hug*
Leigh love what's wrong? We're here if you want to talk. *cuddle*
Do you know why you're on edge? You know where we are. I hope things are all okay.
I'm good, thank you. I've sorted my house for next year, we're looking for one more person, but it's okay as a three. The girls are quite a bit younger than me, but lovely, so it should be good. It's just super scary though.
*squishes for everyone*
"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. Make us all feel wonderful. We'll never forget."
That's great Claire, I'm glad you've got a house sorted out :) It's bound to be scary but it's good that they're nice and I'm sure it will be great! *squishes for you too*
& thank you guys. xxx
"I know you're sad, so I won't tell you to have a good day. Instead, I advise you to simply have a day.
Stay alive, feed yourself well, wear comfortable clothes, and don't give up on yourself just yet.
It'll get better. Until then, have a day."
My dog hasn't been very well this year and today he was quite trembly and looked very sad. Mum is ringing the vet tomorrow. He's already on medication for his heart and his lungs and takes painkillers every morning. He's 12. I have a horrible feeling we're coming to the end but I can't lose him, he is my rock, it sounds stupid but he just sits with me and is so lovely and kind and I'm not ready. I really hope the vet can do something.
Ritzi I really hope today is going okay for you, thinking of you.
*Hugs Ali* I really hope your dog will be okay.
"I know you're sad, so I won't tell you to have a good day. Instead, I advise you to simply have a day.
Stay alive, feed yourself well, wear comfortable clothes, and don't give up on yourself just yet.
It'll get better. Until then, have a day."
Ali, I hope your dog is okay.
Ritzi, I hope you got everything you'd hoped out of today. Loads of love.
Leigh and Star how're you both?
I'm sorry, but I've had a really **** day at work. I might not even have a job anymore, well, I'll be back to waiting on phone calls with no guaranteed shifts because the kid that I am in supporting has completely kicked off (there's been problems for a while) and is probably not coming back to school. I'm gutted. My mum's job is also at risk thanks to NHS reforms being a piece of crap. Sorry. I'm just feeling rubbish about everything.
"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. Make us all feel wonderful. We'll never forget."
Claire, I'm really sorry about your job. *cuddle* We're here if you want to talk, and my PM box is always there. <3
The case conference went well, I guess, J (dietitian) is not discharging me - she'll still see me 3 times a year to link in; I'm being referred to M (ED specialist) again - but they (psych, CPN and J) are going to try and negotiate with her to make it a bit more flexible regarding weight gain; and I'll be seeing the psych semi regularly - until a new psych agrees to take me on, CPN as usual. Sorry for the ramble. =]
*cuddles Claire* I'm really sorry lovely, that's rubbish. I hope things work out better than you expect, and yep, we're here <3
Ritzi I'm glad it went quite well; how are you feeling about it? Love <3
"I know you're sad, so I won't tell you to have a good day. Instead, I advise you to simply have a day.
Stay alive, feed yourself well, wear comfortable clothes, and don't give up on yourself just yet.
It'll get better. Until then, have a day."
Ritzi, I'm glad it went okay. I hope you're okay too.
I'm sorry. Today has been the shittest day I've had for a long time. To top it off, the people I was going to live with (not people I know) have pulled out of the house deal, about an hour ago. I'm just completely devastated and all I can think to do is cut until I don't feel anything. I've got my driving theory tomorrow and I'm so distracted. I really haven't felt this low in a while. I can't stop crying and I feel like such a horrific loser. I'm sorry to come on here and be such an attention whore, but I'm really, really struggling.
I'm sorry. I hope you're all okay.
"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. Make us all feel wonderful. We'll never forget."
I'm sorry Claire, that does sound horrible :( Let us know how it turns out.
Ritzi, it sounds like the conference went pretty well! It's good you'll still have that support network. I don't know very much about your situation I'm afraid but I hope you're pleased with how it turned out.
Chico (my dog) seemed a bit brighter today; Mum had some little kids round and he enjoys that and wagged his tail and stuff. Spent the day cuddling him hehe. He has a vet's appointment tomorrow so hopefully they can shed more light on things.
I'm going to show you him because he is lovely. I took this on his birthday last Saturday (which is coincidentally a month before my birthday - he's 10 years younger than me!) :P
Oh Claire, I'm sorry to hear that love. I know it must feel really, really awful right now but you can get through it. I'm sure you can find somewhere else to live, although I know that probably doesn't help much right now. Please look after yourself - maybe reach out to someone if you can, or keep talking here. We care and would much rather you do that than hurt yourself <3
Awh Ali, he's gorgeous! I'm glad he seems a bit better today and I hope the vet's able to help :)
<3
"I know you're sad, so I won't tell you to have a good day. Instead, I advise you to simply have a day.
Stay alive, feed yourself well, wear comfortable clothes, and don't give up on yourself just yet.
It'll get better. Until then, have a day."
Claire I'm sorry *huggles* I am sure things will work out somehow sweetie, Please try and stay safe..reach out if you need it.
Ritzi, Glad the case conference went well.
Star how are you?
I am ok, tired but ok. Passed my maths exam today (by the skin of my teeth) so happy I don't have to worry about that anymore and my life can become 'maths free' again (yay!)
Life can be beautiful if you let it.
Step back, breathe and take it in
"I know you're sad, so I won't tell you to have a good day. Instead, I advise you to simply have a day.
Stay alive, feed yourself well, wear comfortable clothes, and don't give up on yourself just yet.
It'll get better. Until then, have a day."
