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Old 06-07-2019, 06:39 PM   #581
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Joanna, if you actually read through the recent posts, I know I for example actually told you to keep talking. I don't know what was said that made you think you should not. Your hundreds of pages of support on your current active threads (80+28=108) is not an exaggeration either. I stated that to point out that a lot of people both irl and on tgl and ryl are trying to support you and help you.

I get you're struggling, but nowhere did anyone suggest for you to stop talking or posting. In fact, much the opposite has been encouraged.

I really hope you can at some point take a step back and try to take on board some of the replies and advice you're being given by both people on these websites and in your real life instead of just writing them off as attacks and punishment.



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Old 06-07-2019, 08:07 PM   #582
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Well that's how your responses make me feel. No one else has made me feel like that. And "hundreds of pages of support" is an exaggeration.


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Old 06-07-2019, 08:25 PM   #583
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Joanna, I didn't mean to invalidate you and I'm sorry for that. I tried to be clear that I thought you should talk to people and to validate that you were struggling. I'll take that feedback on board for in the future when I respond to posts.

Further, my point in telling you that you have a lot of pages of threads was to show that you do have a lot of support. I'm also sorry you missed that point, as my intent was to provide you evidence that you have support, people who care, and are not alone.

I'll step away, but I really do sincerely hope you can get the help that you asked for and need. I can empathize with your situation, as I have been in similar situations myself, and I know that it is possible to get out of that cycle. That is what I was trying to offer support wise, but it does not sound as though that is a type of support you are looking for.



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Old 06-07-2019, 08:26 PM   #584
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Okay. Thank you.

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Old 07-07-2019, 07:44 AM   #585
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How are you doing this morning?







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Old 07-07-2019, 10:58 AM   #586
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Well I slept better last night than I did the night before. I lost the plot the night before and the staff were so mean to me. But last night was better and this morning I've managed to have a shower. But I'm bored and fed up and alone. Thanks for asking how I'm doing x

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Old 07-07-2019, 03:39 PM   #587
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It's great you slept better and this morning is a bit better for you.







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Old 07-07-2019, 04:00 PM   #588
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Thanks. I've been in bed all day again x

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Old 08-07-2019, 02:29 PM   #589
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Old 08-07-2019, 05:53 PM   #590
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Pretty difficult. Saw my support worker this morning. Then came back to bed and slept/rested most of the day. Someone had some kind of incident. I've had PRN. I'm bored and fed up and feel hopeless.

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Old 08-07-2019, 07:03 PM   #591
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It's hard being stuck in hospital with not much to occupy yourself and being around other distressed people. How did you get on with your support worker? Could they offer you anything to make your hospital stay a bit better?





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Old 08-07-2019, 07:43 PM   #592
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Yeah it is so hard. Went okay with my support worker but wasn't overly helpful. I don't think so.

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Old 09-07-2019, 08:55 AM   #593
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What does your support worker do with you while you're in hospital? How are things so far today?





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Old 09-07-2019, 10:39 AM   #594
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Just talk to me really. Rubbish. I cancelled my support worker last night then sent her a message asking if could un cancel but she hasn't replied so I don't think she's coming. There's rubbish groups on and I've already been accused of refusing meds when I didn't

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Old 09-07-2019, 02:36 PM   #595
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I know this doesn't help right now, but maybe you could try not to cancel your support worker in the future because they can always leave a bit earlier if they come and you don't feel like chatting or whatever. It's probably better to have some contact anyway.





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Old 09-07-2019, 05:01 PM   #596
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Yeah that's a good idea. I've got my care coordinator visiting tomorrow which I'm nervous about

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Old 09-07-2019, 05:02 PM   #597
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What's making you nervous about it?





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Old 09-07-2019, 07:38 PM   #598
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Just not knowing what she thinks or what she's gonna say

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Old 10-07-2019, 11:32 AM   #599
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I hope it goes alright, please be honest with her. She is there to help you.





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Thank you it went well she was lovely and tried to help. I've been transferred to a treatment bed and it's the hospital I wanted so that's a relief. Just worried as don't know some of the staff and don't know what the consultant will be like

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