is it possble to build a time machine so I can go back in time to the end of my high school year and make sure that im there for my friend her whole entire rest of her life so when she dies I’ll be able to help her and protect her and be there for her?
does anyone know what i can do to build one and or can anyone help me build one PLEASE this is important!!
just another floating iceberg in this ocean we call life...….
Am I a failure from birth
Is misery what I deserve
Am I just so void of love
That I'm never good, never good enough
~citizen soldier-never good enough
B. What you're wanting to do even if it was possible sounds extremely unhealthy and inappropriate. If you were wanting to do that to someone who was alive you'd likely be looking at stalking charges. That's not appropriate.
I'm sorry your friend passed away, but sometimes bad things just happen. All we can do is figure out how to cope with it the best we can and move forward. It sucks. I hope you can talk to staff in your group home so they can help you grieve appropriately.
Please do not give me virtual hugs unless you are only using the hug function on threads. Thanks.
You can't always keep it separate.
This is happening, this is part of you.
No, there is no way you can build a time machine and even if you could, you can't guarantee what you're hoping to achieve would happen because life is unpredictable and can't be controlled as much as we would love to.
I think you really need to put this time machine idea out of your mind and focus on working through your emotions and grief of losing your friend. It sounds like it's brought up a lot of painful feelings and I'm very sorry for your loss
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No, there is no way you can build a time machine and even if you could, you can't guarantee what you're hoping to achieve would happen because life is unpredictable and can't be controlled as much as we would love to.
I think you really need to put this time machine idea out of your mind and focus on working through your emotions and grief of losing your friend. It sounds like it's brought up a lot of painful feelings and I'm very sorry for your loss
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i really dont think i can go on living without trying my hardest to save her........ its really really hard..i dont know what to do....
just another floating iceberg in this ocean we call life...….
Am I a failure from birth
Is misery what I deserve
Am I just so void of love
That I'm never good, never good enough
~citizen soldier-never good enough
Nobody can be there for someone 24/7, though. Like Camden said, if you tried to be you’d be looking at stalking charges and she wouldn’t want to be your friend anyway.
I'm sorry you're feeling so strongly that you've let your friend down. I'm sure this wasn't the case. We can't predict these things unfortunately and you wouldn't have been able to do anything to prevent heart failure.
Is there anyone in real life you can talk these feelings through with?
Nobody can be there for someone 24/7, though. Like Camden said, if you tried to be you’d be looking at stalking charges and she wouldn’t want to be your friend anyway.
oh... but what could have i done?......
just another floating iceberg in this ocean we call life...….
Am I a failure from birth
Is misery what I deserve
Am I just so void of love
That I'm never good, never good enough
~citizen soldier-never good enough
I know. I know it feels that way because our brains struggle to comprehend being powerless. This is one of those situations where you are powerless. It must be so painful and that's what you need to work through with people you trust.