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Old 21-08-2014, 11:20 PM   #1
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Contains sexual abuse - The Abuse

i am a member here , but because am scared that my family will find out
so am posting in this account .

The abuse happened in a long time ago
am too scared the abuser will know i have talked


The abuse and my faith are causing problems because one of the abusers is a powerful person in the faith group that i worship

My mental health has been bad of late i almost killed myself
no one stopped me i managed to go to a safe place

I feel disgusting

I want to die





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Old 24-08-2014, 06:15 AM   #2
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Hey Lily,

I'm sorry, I don't have any advice to give right now, but I just want to tell you that we're all here for you. You're extremely tough for having gone through so much. Don't be scared. Is there anybody you can talk to, apart from family, who you trust enough that they won't tell the abuser? I know that you're scared he'll get to know, but in order for things to get better, you need to inform someone you trust- someone who might be able to make a change. Is there anyone like that you think you can talk to? If you don't want to tell them about your abuser, then maybe just to talk to them, just to feel better and comforted?

Hang in there- you're not disgusting. It's the abuser who's disgusting, you're beautiful. PM me if you ever need to talk, and know that I'm thinking of you. *hugs* Stay safe x



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Old 27-08-2014, 08:30 PM   #3
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I cant tell only my partner knows about the abuse
Am scared that some family members will say am making it up
I told A family member about the other abuse from someone who is dead now and they said it was my fault


i know if i speak out about this ill lose my family

really want to tell but i cant





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Old 28-08-2014, 06:58 PM   #4
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It is NOT your fault! Please don't ever forget that! Did talking to your partner help in making you feel a little supported? I don't have much advice, but you can always talk to me anytime you want. Hopefully, the others on here will have much more helpful advice to give, but just know that I'm thinking of you, and I'm always here for you. Take care x



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Old 28-08-2014, 10:24 PM   #5
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it wasn't your fault. you did nothing to deserve what happened.
what makes you think that you'd lose your family?
*sends hugs*

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