Contains sexual abuse - Sharing/Question (Sorry if I put this in the wrong forum)

Drake · 02-08-2012, 01:33 AM

When I was in high school I went through some form of sexual violence that happened more than once by different boys and I'm not sure what to call it or if I should be tested for STDs or not. (I'm not in high school anymore.) I'm sorry if this bothers or disturbs anyone. I would deem this graphic. I'm sorry if I said too much, I've just never told anyone this before. And I didn't feel comfortable talking to my parents because my dad is not comfortable with my being gay. Sorry if this is too much information.

What happened was:

The following content has been hidden - Reason : Sexual violence

And now I feel really bad about sharing that because I know it sounds upsetting and I don't like upsetting people and maybe I'm making it sound worse than it was.

makedamnsure · 02-08-2012, 01:39 AM

Hey Drake
I don't think you are making it sound worse than it was. It was a horrible thing for those bullies to do, and I can understand why it has upset you and why you might not have felt able to speak about it before.

I'm glad you found the courage to share though.

If this boy/boys did not ejaculate then the chances are very slim that you could have caught an STD, but if you are worried you could always have a check anyway if you wanted just to be sure.

It was definately assault, possibly rape. Either way, it was a really horrible thing to have to go through.

Drake · 02-08-2012, 01:43 AM

Thank you.

Horizon · 02-08-2012, 02:00 AM

You could still get an STD without ejaculation. If you're not sure if there was penetration, it would be worth getting an STD check.

crazykat · 23-08-2012, 07:22 AM

I don't think your making it sound worse than what it is. I think what you went through was horrible and no one should have to go through that. Have you thought about getting some counselling for what happened? Take care
Kat xxx