Engagement in Jeopardy? Please give your opinion
Thanks for viewing & hopefully registering an opinion asI have nobody else I can turn to for advice. I also am trying to keep this post as gender neutral as possible.
As the Title/Subject indicates, I’m engaged but we live agood 3 ½ hour drive apart and while it’s problematic for ‘Jessie’ to find timeto travel for visiting, ‘Jamie’ is able to travel at any time.
7 May 201212:05:01 … Iam off today to sleep, tomorrow to catch up and clean the house and then backfor more nights. … (Jessie)
7 May 201216:56:59 …what the heck am I'm doing here if you're off there? ~ !@#$%^&**I'll just slip down sometime regardless of what shift you might be on. (Jamie)
8 May 201211:48:35 Iwould like to know when you are planning on visiting so we can discuss if itworks for both of us. … (Jessie)
8 May 2012 18:50:54 …think of the times we’ve discussed communication and how much I value and loveto hear your voice. Further contemplate on what I am to think when rather thanphoning, you resort to mainly just email. I value any time I canhave you ~ the less I hear you, the more I want to see you ~ if you don’t feelthe same then, well . . . thoughts run amok and are now compounded by your‘discussion before visitation’ thing. … (Jamie)
So gracious readers of the above extracts, please comment insupport or critique of either;
a) Jessie is correct to expect notice & discussionbefore any visits?
b) Jamie is correct to consider that visiting terms are a redflag?