questions, questions, questions. like as long as they're not also really socially anxious, people love giving their opinion. legit you could ask them the most random crap (as long as there's some kind of context, and it's not just "haha why is the sky blue?") and they'll probably take the bait, especially if it was starting to get awkward. then after they give their opinion, give yours too so it feels like a discussion and not an interview.
the problem is just thinking of things to ask, i usually talk political topics or books since that's what i enjoy, but you could use anything.
idk if that'll help you make friends, but it'll definitely keep conversation going. you also look more assertive if you ask things rather than just answering them, even if you're not and just can't think of anything else lol.
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