How can someone's perception of what is normal eating be so thrown out of whack?! I used to know, how can things change so drastically?
My body and mind no longer knows what is normal anymore. I sat down today to try and have a PB&J for a snack, that I was hungry so I should eat. I had my sandwich, but so badly wanted some oreos and milk so I did (I knew at this point that I was going to end up purging). After having that I wanted cheese, pepperoni, and crackers so I had that too. Needless to say, I ended up purging. I tried to give my body what it wanted, I had a sandwich which sounded good. I just kept grabbing more though, knowing what it was going to result in.
I told my therapist last week (who is trying to get me to cut down on my daily purging) that I would try and use good coping skills to deal with my anxiety with food. Since my Tuesday meeting, and telling her I would try, I have done so once, only once. The one time I tried a healthy coping skill I felt terrible as the night went on, I felt so big. I found myself wishing I had, then I wouldn't have felt so terrible about myself. I told myself today I would not purge, that went down hill after the sandwich. I feel like such a disappointment, I can't even give it an actual go.
I have no idea how to tell when I am actually hungry, or when I am just stuffing my face which will result in a purge. How do you figure this out? How do I know when I am actually hungry, or when I am just going to binge and purge?
Someone please help...