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Old 09-09-2019, 07:34 PM   #1061
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Just had a long chat about everything with my fav HCA. She is going to try and speak to my psychologist on my behalf as well as my favourite nurse and try to sort out a one to one with my favourite nurse for tomorrow. I tried really hard to be open and honest and it helped to have a bit of a plan in place. She was really understanding and could see why I feel like everyone else is getting loads of support and I'm not and she said it's something I need to make my psychologist aware of which is gonna be awkward whenever that is.

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Old 09-09-2019, 07:55 PM   #1062
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Really proud of you for talking today, you did really well in opening up and I hope the outcome is a good one.

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Old 09-09-2019, 08:16 PM   #1063
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Thank you hun I appreciate your reply and your kindness x I don't think I want psychology anymore which is probably a good thing because I think I've become too attached to the psychologist anyway so God knows what the Drs are going to say on Wednesday when I say I'm not having it anymore x

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Old 09-09-2019, 09:02 PM   #1064
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If not psychology, what do you think could be helpful for you?

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Old 09-09-2019, 09:13 PM   #1065
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I think I'm a lost cause. I don't think anything can help me.

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Old 09-09-2019, 09:50 PM   #1066
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I understand the feeling, however I believe everyone can be helped. What would you want to happen in your life next?

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Old 09-09-2019, 11:20 PM   #1067
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I really don't know I guess get out of hospital somehow

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Old 10-09-2019, 01:46 PM   #1068
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I've asked for a one to one with my favourite nurse so worrying about that.

Spoke to my allocated HCA who I spoke with yesterday and she said she told my psychologist why I'm upset. Apparently she can't see me too Monday now anyway but that she would still like to see me and talk about it :/

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Old 10-09-2019, 04:28 PM   #1069
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Well done on speaking to the HCA, really brave of you. I'm glad the psychologist wants to talk it through with you - hopefully that'll help you make sense of things.

Why are you worrying about seeing your favourite nurse?







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Old 10-09-2019, 04:55 PM   #1070
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Thank you!

The psychologist came to find me to ask if we could make another appt. I made it clear I feel she doesn't care anymore and that I'm not a priority. She says even though I don't want the appt she will keep my slot for me. I couldn't tell her the reasons I was upset with her I couldn't even look at her.

I spoke to my fav nurse who said she's gonna talk to my psychologist on my behalf and explain all the reasons I'm upset and hurt and not as willing to engage. She's also going to ask about more psychology input as long as I promise to get engage which I did. She said maybe the reason I'm not getting as much support as others is because I'm refusing it/not engaging but my argument is is that they know how much I'm struggling and I need a bit more encouragement rather than being left to rot in bed everyday.

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Old 10-09-2019, 07:23 PM   #1071
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The nurse said she spoke to the psychologist and she said she was pleased as it shows progress...and that she told her all the things I was upset about etc and the psychologist just said she would see me Monday and we can talk about it all then. Now I have to wait all the way til Monday.

Got my ward review tomorrow and I'm nervous.

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Old 10-09-2019, 08:18 PM   #1072
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That sounds positive but it must be hard carrying all your anxiety for tomorrow and Monday. How do you usually manage your nervousness? Do you know what you'd like to bring up at your review?





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Old 10-09-2019, 10:32 PM   #1073
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Thank you I guess it is but I doubt anything will change re getting more psychology input etc.

Yeah it is hard. Luckily my advocate should be coming to my review tomorrow so that will hopefully help. I don't know how I deal with it tbh. I've written a list of things of what I want to bring up in review.

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Old 11-09-2019, 07:21 AM   #1074
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It's understandable that you have your doubts, but it is possible that things will change.


Fingers crossed that your advocate will be helpful! Well done for making the list, and good luck!

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Old 11-09-2019, 09:04 AM   #1075
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Thank you. I'm just so anxious.

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Old 11-09-2019, 01:05 PM   #1076
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Hope you're doing ok today. What time is the review?





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Old 11-09-2019, 02:30 PM   #1077
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I hope your review has gone/goes well.





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Old 11-09-2019, 03:11 PM   #1078
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Thank you. It went better than other reviews but still have no leave which I guess is the right thing.

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Old 11-09-2019, 04:02 PM   #1079
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I'm glad it went better than previous reviews, that's a positive sign!







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Old 11-09-2019, 05:08 PM   #1080
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I'm glad it went better and that you can see that they're trying to do the right thing for you. Do you have any goals for this week so that maybe your next review can go even better?





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