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15-01-2020, 11:51 AM
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#401
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The Shadow of the Day
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Scotland
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I've had to appeal quite a lot of DWP decisions and they have usually eventually turned out in my favour. I'm not sure about this change though, as my benefits stayed the same. Can you ask your CPN for advice?
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I put it down on paper and then the ghost does not ache so much.
Don't try to calm the storm, calm yourself, the storm will pass.
You didn't come this far just to come this far.
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15-01-2020, 09:44 PM
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#402
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: U.K.
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Great news, my parents went through the letter with me and my income is still sufficient.
Thanks for the reassurance.
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Ying tong iddle ai po!
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16-01-2020, 12:41 PM
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#403
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The Shadow of the Day
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Scotland
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That's really good. But if you think you're entitled to more then do put in a reconsideration/appeal. Benefits stuff is so stressful.
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I put it down on paper and then the ghost does not ache so much.
Don't try to calm the storm, calm yourself, the storm will pass.
You didn't come this far just to come this far.
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28-01-2020, 12:28 AM
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#404
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: U.K.
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Hi, I'm back. Struggling with being honest with parents when if I lie, say I am safe, i could end it this week. I suppose a part of me is scared of death and what it might do to my family, otherwise this would be an easy decision
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Ying tong iddle ai po!
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28-01-2020, 01:38 AM
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#405
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: U.K.
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Theory A. I need to die. Everyone will feel better, including me. 90%
Theory B I might not succeed and even to try would cause suffering 10%
Evidence A: can't get the idea out my head, clues on the TV.
Evidence B: my family love me, I would hurt them. I am not in pain, I am in control, I don't feel unwell, I can't see cameras, there are no signs of thought reading**
But Theory A makes more sense to me. What do I tell my CPN?
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Ying tong iddle ai po!
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28-01-2020, 10:00 AM
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#406
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The Shadow of the Day
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Scotland
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You need to be honest with your CPN no matter what you are thinking. It's really important that someone who is not inside the emotional place you are right now can look at things from an objective point of view. You need some support, you don't need to die. Please be honest about both theories and your beliefs regarding each of them. You can do this.
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I put it down on paper and then the ghost does not ache so much.
Don't try to calm the storm, calm yourself, the storm will pass.
You didn't come this far just to come this far.
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29-01-2020, 01:27 PM
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#407
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: U.K.
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I just saw my CPN and he said i need to not lose weight. This is reassuring because I worry I eat far too much. I would still love to be skinny though so I am tempted to restrict again.
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Ying tong iddle ai po!
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29-01-2020, 08:51 PM
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#408
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: U.K.
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Please help, I'm really triggered.
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Ying tong iddle ai po!
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04-02-2020, 01:15 PM
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#409
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: U.K.
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The world would be a better place without me.
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Ying tong iddle ai po!
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04-02-2020, 03:42 PM
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#410
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Join Date: Nov 2013
Location: Scotland
I am currently:
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What makes you think that?
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04-02-2020, 04:20 PM
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#411
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: U.K.
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I'm so needy, I take away goodness from everyone else.
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Ying tong iddle ai po!
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04-02-2020, 06:15 PM
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#412
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Join Date: Sep 2017
Location: London-ish
I am currently:
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I think you're lovely and add goodness to everyone's lives.
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05-02-2020, 05:10 PM
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#413
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: U.K.
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A big thank you for your support. I won't be here for a week, on the suggestion of my CPN.
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Ying tong iddle ai po!
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05-02-2020, 06:27 PM
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#414
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Join Date: Sep 2017
Location: London-ish
I am currently:
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Look after yourself. <3
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