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14-06-2009, 09:28 PM
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Triggering (Sexual Abuse) - what someone said
ok so it was my mates birthday today (misspenguin) and someone had obviously hadnt remembered me and my ex broke up. someone asked me how things were between us and i just said we broke up which is true and she kept asking why and i couldnt answer. i got super bad flashbacks but i couldnt tell anyone because i didnt wanna ruin her birthday.
why wont they stop?????
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14-06-2009, 09:32 PM
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Just find the time and reach for the bright side
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Kent, England
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people can be so tactless :( they never know when to stop pressing stuff sometimes!
*safe hugs*
you were so so brave and selfless to stay quiet so as not to ruin her birthday
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heliotrope-lavender-candytuft-tulip-almond blossom-sycamore
Where do you turn when the night turns to singing such sweet melodies and you flash your fin then it's back to the depths where I cannot see you but I built these towers just to honour you.....
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14-06-2009, 09:36 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2008
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I'm sorry this triggered flashbacks for you. Remind yourself you are free and safe now. Do something you enjoy to take your mind off the memories: read/draw/write/watch a film/etc.
Star xx
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14-06-2009, 09:39 PM
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im feeling a bit better now
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14-06-2009, 09:51 PM
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thank you katy, i dont feel very strong atm
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14-06-2009, 10:25 PM
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I definitely agree with Katy.
You are much stronger than you can see. But until you realise it, we'll be here to remind you.
xx
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14-06-2009, 11:48 PM
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Just find the time and reach for the bright side
Join Date: Nov 2007
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that's a good way of putting it, Starlight =)
we are all here for you Damaged. Hope you don't have too bad a night
xxx
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heliotrope-lavender-candytuft-tulip-almond blossom-sycamore
Where do you turn when the night turns to singing such sweet melodies and you flash your fin then it's back to the depths where I cannot see you but I built these towers just to honour you.....
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15-06-2009, 07:31 PM
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well i was feeling ok but my parents have been arguing again today so ive been getting flashbacks which sucks.
i hate this i just want all the crap to stop
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15-06-2009, 07:44 PM
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It's full of lonely.
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: England
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Hey,
I understand how horrible flashbacks can be. *hugs*
Maybe you could do something to distract yourself?
I'm here if you wanna talk. Hope you're alright. xo.
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<3.
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