Contains bullying - school days

#skittles# · 05-12-2011, 10:12 PM

i knew it would only be a matter of time before it all started again, i knew that it would not be the end of it, why did i ever think that it would have been?

Today at school after weeks of nothing the bullies started again
the whole day just went from bad to worse
first it started with the odd comment then the name calling began, then it stopped for awhile as we went to different lessons but as soon as that was over they started again, i ended up shouting at back at them one of them then pushed and slapped me then they all ran off laughing.

now once again this is something i am just going to have to live with, nothing much i can do about it

Frail Existence · 06-12-2011, 12:27 AM

*hugs close n gentle*
tell someone? can ya try that?

#skittles# · 06-12-2011, 09:54 AM

telling someone could help but don't see no point, makes it stop for awhile then it just starts all over again

crazykat · 06-12-2011, 10:10 AM

It is worth telling someone, you shouldn't have to deal with this alone. Also by telling someone it shows the bullies that their behaviour will not be tolerated. Could you explain to the person that the bullying stops then continues? Hold on there hun xxx

#skittles# · 06-12-2011, 10:20 AM

i guess that i could, i don't know i have to think about it.

right now i have to go and then face another day, see what happens

long road · 06-12-2011, 01:48 PM

telling is scary, but sometimes it works, teachers got one of my bullies to back off not all of them but one is better than none.
thinking of you, it gets better i dont get any hassle now i'm at uni.
*hugs*

Gone. · 06-12-2011, 03:50 PM

Please tell someone that you trust. It truly isn't right for you to be bullied like you are being and can hurt so much. I know that telling someone seems scary and it doesn't always work but it might do and I would hope that the situation would be dealt with delicately and well. If anything, at least you'd have someone to talk to if you spoke out. You don't deserve this to be happening to you.

#skittles# · 06-12-2011, 06:13 PM

Today was no better, They just don't seem to want to leave me alone, no matter how much i try to avoid them one or more of them seem to be there, it's like everywhere i turn no matter which way one of them is there with looks that are horrid or they say something hurtful or try to do something, today they did not physically hurt me, but one of them did get a hold of my bag run off and hide it someplace i did find it after sometime.

Think might go tell someone tomorrow but still not 100% sure about that right now

Heaven Knows · 06-12-2011, 06:16 PM

*hugs Skittles*
I don't have any words right now, but I agree with what the others have said; I think you should tell someone what's going on.
I'm always here if you want to talk honey.
x Katie x

#skittles# · 06-12-2011, 06:54 PM

I am going to think about about tellin someone tomorrow maybe
but all i keep thinking is what is the point in telling? if they make it stop and it starts again? maybe it just be best to not say anything

long road · 06-12-2011, 08:34 PM

if it stops for a bit it's better than it keeping going for all that time!

damagedsurvivor · 06-12-2011, 09:44 PM

Hey lil sis please don't let them win sweetie. I helped you so much to come forward and tell someone about the bullying. Don't you remember they were suspended for what they did to you? Also don't you remember that the lady said that if they do it again they get expelled? Please sweetie tell Kelly and let her know whats going on then tomorrow maybe both of you can talk to the lady and let her know whats been happening again. You don't deserve to be treated like this sweetie.

I love you lil sis please do this for me *snuggles you close in my arms*

Gone. · 06-12-2011, 11:46 PM

I'm glad that you're at least considering telling someone, even if you aren't 100% sure about it. Do have a think about it. Telling someone is very hard and a strong thing to do and I know you have it in you, even though I don't know you very well. You've done it before, from what I can see, and you can do it again, even if the fact you've done it before is making it more difficult right now.

Perhaps you could weigh up people that you could tell in your mind. Make a list of people that you could trust and think about how you might tell them. Which way would be easier? Writing it down? Talking? A picture? There are lots of ways to talk to people.

Like Jen said, even if it doesn't stop forever, it might stop for a while and that will allow you to recharge and possibly work with someone at becoming able enough to shout down those bullies. Would that be a plan, do you think?

Take care.

crazykat · 07-12-2011, 10:00 AM

It's good you are at least considering telling someone. You don't deserve to keep being treated the way you are.

#skittles# · 07-12-2011, 02:35 PM

Still not told anyone yet, but been thinking alot and guess that i really should so maybe later i will tell the person i am going to tell

Heaven Knows · 07-12-2011, 03:40 PM

I hope you do honey <3
Maybe it'd be easier to write it down or something?
x Katie x

#skittles# · 07-12-2011, 04:04 PM

Going to try tell her and if that don't work will write it down and give it to her

guess better to tell rather then try and hide from the bullies all the time

Heaven Knows · 07-12-2011, 04:06 PM

Definitely honey; it's not fair on you for you to have to keep hiding from them just so you don't get hurt.
x Katie x

Gone. · 07-12-2011, 04:45 PM

I'm glad that you're going to tell someone. Let us know how it goes.

#skittles# · 09-12-2011, 09:28 AM

yesterday i went with someone to school and spoke to the head, told her what had been happening all what the bullies said and did to me, now the bullies are going to be dealt with

hopefully now it will all stop and i won't have to feel so scared to go to school.