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Old 24-02-2021, 08:20 PM   #1
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too old?

im 29 and today while talking to my mom on the phone about my SH she said "you want us to treat you like a grown up but you do stupid stuff like this! grown ups dont do this kind of stuff"

am i too old to self harm?



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Old 24-02-2021, 08:25 PM   #2
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Last time i checked there wasn't an age limit. I'll be 40 this year and i self harm. A comment like that is actually quite an immature comment from someone who hasn't really bothered to even try to dig a little deeper into the issue.

To be fair, sometimes it's just one of those arrogant/borderline abusive comments that ignorant people throw around like confetti. My mum says something like that a lot too. So maybe it's a mum thing????

It's not you darkwings, it's them refusing to try and understand something happening to you which neither you nor they can control. Xx

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Old 24-02-2021, 09:32 PM   #3
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I'm 37 and still self harm. And have known of people much older who started well into their late adult lives too.

Unfortunately it is something that is mostly associated with teenagers but that is really not the truth of it. People can still feel the same emotions whether they are 16 or 60 and the reactions to those emotions can sometimes be the same regardless of age whether that is self harm or something else.

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Old 25-02-2021, 01:27 AM   #4
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thank you all!! <3



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Old 25-02-2021, 11:14 AM   #5
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Nonperson speaks wise words. I am currently self injury free but when I did do it I was in my thirties. I know someone who is nearly 40 and still self injures. So like it has been said you're never too old.



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Old 03-03-2021, 10:16 PM   #6
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i was 17 when i started......



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Old 05-03-2021, 10:59 PM   #7
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I was a teenager when I started, but 36 when I last self harmed. It's a stereotype that it is only teenagers who self harm, there are a huge number of adults who self harm and a good number of them would have started it in adulthood. Self harm isn't childish and does not mean you are immature or less grown up than anyone else your age.

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