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Old 24-04-2012, 10:26 PM   #1
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why?!

Why does something that is so bad feel so good? Why did I go so long without it and suddenly it's consumes my thoughts again? Why am I such a failure?!



We're all in the same game;
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Old 24-04-2012, 11:18 PM   #2
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You're not a failure. Has something happened that's made you feel this way, to trigger these thoughts again?

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Old 25-04-2012, 12:09 AM   #3
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If I am perfectly honest, yes but I can't talk about it.



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Old 25-04-2012, 12:17 AM   #4
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You're not a failure. <3 Message me if you need anything at all.



Success is not final.
Failure is not fatal.
It is the courage to continue that counts.
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Old 25-04-2012, 12:43 AM   #5
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failure is WAY too harsh. failing at one thing does not take away all the other things that you've succeeded at.

and slipping up isn't failure, it is a part of the process for most, if not all, people (although it is an unwelcome one).

what has helped you avoid harming in the past? maybe you can use some of those things now, and use them as a starting guide to find other things that would help you




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Old 25-04-2012, 05:36 PM   #6
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what has helped you avoid harming in the past?
I don't even know... :shrug:



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Old 26-04-2012, 12:43 AM   #7
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fair enough.... there is a big list of ideas of things to do instead of harming if you look on the Fun and Distractions page... maybe you could go through and pick out a few to try when you get the urge to harm yourself




this is my magical medicine cabinet. Left to right they contain: courage, hope, calmness, and strength.

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Old 28-04-2012, 12:34 AM   #8
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You are NOT a failure <3 Unfortunately, I am wondering the same thing about SI.

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