I've just seen a status, her current pregnancy is bigger at 12 weeks than her girls all were at 15 weeks, they're thinking it might be a boy and she may be able to carry him longer. As there were questions about their size they were more willing to treat in case they'd got it wrong.
Is there a reason she delivers so prematurely? I'm terrified that I'll go into labor way too soon. I'm at risk for pre-term labor so any twinge makes me nervous.
Elliot can now properly walk! Yey. Still building his confidence and he's wobbly but he's walking all over now. So excited for all the new things this means we can do :D
Sam, I literally cant believe you have a child that is old enough to walk!What a clever little boy ^_^ x
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Thanks. He's growing so quickly. He's coming in leaps and bounds since turning 1. It's like a switch has just flicked on. He's picking up loads of words now and I'm just so proud of him.
I can't believe he is one and I am yet to meet him!!
The last time I saw you I spilt a drink trying to feel him kick!!
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My partner has work tomorrow for the first time since Lucas was born so I will be alone with Lucas in the morning before work and I'm so terrified I'm crying and feel like I'm going to vomit!
I don't even know why I'm so scared I don't know how any of you can help I just feel so scared, I have always been scared of being alone with I remember the first month I couldn't even leave the flat and I've never really got over it just avoided being left alone for any longer then 2 hours I think it all stems from being alone with him in the hospital for the first week and I had never even seen a baby close up before and I just had to do everything and I was emotional because he wasn't latching! The panic and fear has never left.
They're not sure, she doesn't go into labor, she's needed emergency c sections every time, not sure if it was pre-eclampsia or she was dilating but not contracting, i'm not sure, have never really asked, but this pregnancy is so different they're going to see if it's a boy, maybe she will carry a boy to term. She's getting sterilised, she had 2 with her ex who was a horrible man I unfortunately worked with, now these two with her new partner (well been together 4 years).
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Elliot can now properly walk! Yey. Still building his confidence and he's wobbly but he's walking all over now. So excited for all the new things this means we can do :D
Thats awesome Sam. He's so grown up!
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My partner has work tomorrow for the first time since Lucas was born so I will be alone with Lucas in the morning before work and I'm so terrified I'm crying and feel like I'm going to vomit!
I don't even know why I'm so scared I don't know how any of you can help I just feel so scared, I have always been scared of being alone with I remember the first month I couldn't even leave the flat and I've never really got over it just avoided being left alone for any longer then 2 hours I think it all stems from being alone with him in the hospital for the first week and I had never even seen a baby close up before and I just had to do everything and I was emotional because he wasn't latching! The panic and fear has never left.
It was ok I called my therapist crying and she suggested getting out of the house so I wasn't alone and it helped because I went to a group at the children's center but it hasn't really solved my problem of being scared of being alone with him I can't just go out everytime I'm left alone with him :(
I understand the fear of having to take care of the baby on your own, it scares me too. I will have to for some period of time 5 days a week while my boyfriend works.
I suppose I'll be a bit scared when/if i have Jasmine on my own. There has always had to be some kind of professional present, which is horrible but i suppose kind of reassuring that they would say if i was doing something wrong.
Can you identify at all what you're scared of?
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I'm fine! Totally fine. I don't know why it's coming out all loud and squeaky, 'cause really, I'm fine!
I think it's the fact I haven't got any confidence in my descions, normally I ask my partner what I should give him for lunch or if he seems tired enough to go to bed its just having him around for support and so I don't get lonely with only Lucas to talk to all day also I worry Lucas won't like me and will just scream all day and I will get stressed and upset
yeah protection from his bodily functions exiting and ending up in water. You can get things like float suits which may fit him for longer? You'll have to look into it I think.
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is it a swimming class Charlie?
we have taken saul to public pools in just little swimmers but both waterbabies and turtle tots recommend a happy nappy Im not sure it would keep the poo in but thats what they want
