The Borderline Personality Disorder Thread

[Tig]

Well done on not self harming for 39 weeks, that's fantastic!
Sorry to hear about your Dad though. It sounds a complicated situation and I hope that it doesn't stress you out too much.

Hiya Kat, how are you?

[Bleeding Angel]

congrats mark

[crazykat]

How are you Lotti? I'm struggling

How are you Mari?

[Doikers]

Thanks everyone for the congratulations and support.

Whats Up Kat?

[Tig]

Hiya Mari.

Sorry you are struggling Kat. Do you want to talk about it?

I'm a bit nervous, just waiting for therapist to call then I have a busy day ahead but stomach feels a bit weird which is making me more anxious. Sure it's a vicious circle!

[crazykat]

I hope she calls you soon Lotti, I hate waiting for people to call. It makes me anxious too.

I dunno just been feeling depressed for months, seems like nothing is better. Kinda giving up hope that things can change.

[*hot_stuff*]

Hia. not sure what I need to say here, been diagnosed with BPD for the past 5 years; every time I feel I'm turning a corner and there might be light at the end of the tunnel - it's an oncoming train. have a good day everyone x

[Tig]

Kat - I can relate to giving up on hope that things will ever change after being depressed for a long time. It's a really, really hard place to be and I wish I could say something incredibly insightful or give advice but then I should take it myself! All I can say I guess is that I know somebody who is many years down the line in recovery and she will always say to me "There is always hope" - I don't always believe her but she's recovered now, and I know that she too often felt incredibly hopeless.

Hey Hot Stuff - cool name hehe. How are you? Welcome to the thread :)

[Doikers]

Hey Lotti , has your therapist called you? *Hugs*

*Huggles Kat*I've been where you are , I vist fairly frequently .

*Hugs Hot Stuff* Welcome :)

I am VERY anxious , My Dad is painting my kitchen now, He has been here over 4 hours , he bought lunch ffs , I Need more Diaz. :(

[ferretmonster]

I'm gutted, the first voluntary job i thought i'd like and the gym have just put a statement on fb saying the company running it are leaving :(

[Reki]

Hey Kat, I'm sorry to hear you're still struggling. *Hugs* I wish I could say something to help but I don't really know what to say as I am struggling myself... I hope you will feel better soon.

*Hugs Mark* That does sound like a stressful situation, it would make me very anxious if my mom came here to paint and take over like that. Is he going to stay for a long time? Well done on the 39 weeks SI free!

*Hugs Tig* I hope your therapist will call you soon and that your busy day will go well!

Sorry to hear that Ferret. :( I hope you will be able to find another voluntary job that you like. *Hugs*

Hey Hot Stuff, welcome to the thread! How are you?

[Doikers]

My Dad left , and the Diaz helped :)

[Bleeding Angel]

hey claire could you look about online for voluntary positions? thats how i found mine.

[Doikers]

Is there a volunteer Beuro near to you Ferret?. I attend one here.

[ferretmonster]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bleeding Angel

hey claire could you look about online for voluntary positions? thats how i found mine.

yeah unfortunatley dorset isn't very up with the times and tends not to do things as much online but i shall keep trying, just thought i had the ideal thing sorted.

[Bleeding Angel]

Even if you call round a few places maybe?

[crazykat]

Hot stuff welcome to the thread. Hope your doing okay?

Glad your dad left in the end Mark. Look after yourself

That's a shame ferret, good luck finding somewhere else

Reki here if you need anything *hugs*

Thanks everyone for the hugs and words they mean alot

How is everyone else?

[Doikers]

*Leaves Hugs a HUGE chocolate cake and a Big bowl of Grapes on the table*

[crazykat]

Mmmm yummy chocolate cake. How are you Mark?

[Tig]

Mm, craving chocolate grapes now. If you freeze them they are amazing!