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Old 20-12-2008, 01:36 PM   #1
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Triggering (Sexual Abuse) - This CAN'T have happened again *Graphic*

...But I think I was sexually assaulted last night
But the thing is, I don't to be blowing it out of proportion...


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Old 20-12-2008, 01:47 PM   #2
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Oh Helen, I'm so sorry to hear this darling. I don't know what to say but I want you to know I'm thinking of you. I am sure you aren't blowing it out of proportion at all. xx

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Old 20-12-2008, 01:55 PM   #3
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Helen i am so sorry to hear this.We are here if you want to talk and i dont think you'd be blowing out of proportion ok?Whatever has happened has clearly effected you.Take care and know that we are here for you. x



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Old 20-12-2008, 02:16 PM   #4
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Sammi gave me the idea of writing like it happened to a friend. So,

he told her to shut up & took off her jeans,, she kept trying to kick him off her,, but he pulled her legs apart && held her feet & he said to her to 'stop moving otherwise it wouldnt be good' she just said NO NO NO NO NO,, she.. didnt know what else to do/say... :um:







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Old 20-12-2008, 02:21 PM   #5
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i wish i knew the words to take your pain away.
is there anyway way that you could talk to the police because that is definately sexual assult.
i dont know how else to help accept you can always om me if you need to let off steam.
stay safe hun
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Old 20-12-2008, 03:54 PM   #6
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im sorry hun.

As said above you need to go to the police if you possibly can. x



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Old 20-12-2008, 04:08 PM   #7
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I have tried persuading her to go the police but she wont :( I will keep trying though.

Hel my beautiful twiny
I know how hard this has been for you but from what you have told me you re not blowing this out of proportion, he sexually asbused you. Thats also child abuse. so he has commited to offences there. You know if you change your mind I will come with you to see the police. you dont even need to say anything.
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Old 20-12-2008, 04:41 PM   #8
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Helen hun,

I'm so sorry this has happened. Please talk to somebody about this...report it to the police. That man does not deserve to get away with this! Please let Sammi go to the police with you. It will be okay. *holds close*

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Old 20-12-2008, 04:46 PM   #9
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..But maybe it wasn't sexual abuse/assault because he thought I wanted it otherwise he wouldn't have said things like "stop moving otherwise it wouldn't be good"... & worse things so obviously i must have done something to make him think I did...







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Old 20-12-2008, 04:49 PM   #10
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*holds gently* Honey, even if you wanted it up to a certain point, said no and he carried on, it's still wrong. The moment you say no is the moment it should stop.

'No' is all we need to say. You couldn't've done anymore sweetheart, and I'm so sorry that this has happened. I'm around for a while if you need a chat...

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Old 20-12-2008, 04:49 PM   #11
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No hunnie thats how abusers work, they make it seem like you were asking for it, when you in fact WERE NOT

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Old 20-12-2008, 04:51 PM   #12
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No hunny. It WAS sexual abuse. You said no. Without BOTH people's consent...it is rape. And silence is NOT considered consent. You clearly did not want it. He was wrong.

http://kidshealth.org/teen/safety/sa...hat_to_do.html

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Old 20-12-2008, 04:52 PM   #13
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No hunnie thats how abusers work, they make it seem like you were asking for it, when you in fact WERE NOT

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Old 20-12-2008, 05:13 PM   #14
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Baby, it was sexual abuse/assault. It wasn't your fault. I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Please, please tell the police though. Sammi has offered to go with you. I know you probably feel so out of it right now and alone and numb and feeling a lot of hurt and mixed feelings, but you can't let this person get away with what he has done. It's wrong. It's so, so wrong.

We all love you here. We're all here for you. Keep writing. We are always here to listen to you and try and help you get through this.

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Old 20-12-2008, 10:21 PM   #15
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Thank you so much everyone. I knew I could count on you guys for support.

I just keep going over it in my head, its making me feel physcially sick. I keep playing what he said over & over its driving me mad.

I HATE MYSELF

I think this has finally pushed me over the edge. I won't recover from my ED now,, if I was too thin he wouldn't have come near me.







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Old 20-12-2008, 10:27 PM   #16
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*big hugs*
I'm so sorry hun.
I don't know what else to say and I know we haven't talked ebfore but PM me anytime x



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Old 20-12-2008, 10:49 PM   #17
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I doubt it's to do with how you look. It's to do with power. Controlling. That's what this is about a lot of the time. The other person being in control. *hugs you* Baby, you will recover from this ED, you have the power deep inside, &you will get there. It'll take time, no doubt, but you will recover. YOU WILL. We all believe in you. Right now, you feel like you won't, but in time, you'll see you can do this.



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Old 20-12-2008, 11:37 PM   #18
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i'm so so sorry this happened to you, remember it is NOT your fault in any way, you did nothing wrong and you did not want it, what happened is awful and totally wrong. the most important thing is that you are physically ok and safe. if you have any worries phsyically after the assault PLEASE get checked out. and are you safe so that it can't happen again? please make sure you are. what the others have said about reporting it to the police, please think about it, but its totally understandable if you dont feel strong enough at the moment. remember we are all here for you, your going to be ok. xx

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Old 21-12-2008, 01:43 AM   #19
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I think im about to have a breakdown, i can feel it coming.
I want to cry but no tears are coming.
why did this happen to me again?







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Old 21-12-2008, 03:06 AM   #20
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this was defantly sexual assault if not abuse... I am so sorry that this happened to you... you really need to speak to someone though, you need support.
idealy the police... but I know that is scary and you may not feel up to it


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why did this happen to me again?
*hugs*
I don't know... I wish I could answer you... but sometimes these things happen, and sometimes more than once to the same person...
you did nothing to cause nor attract this, really. it is no reflection on you.

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