Helen i am so sorry to hear this.We are here if you want to talk and i dont think you'd be blowing out of proportion ok?Whatever has happened has clearly effected you.Take care and know that we are here for you. x
i do not always manage to be around but i wish you all the very best - love and luck to you all!
Sammi gave me the idea of writing like it happened to a friend. So,
he told her to shut up & took off her jeans,, she kept trying to kick him off her,, but he pulled her legs apart && held her feet & he said to her to 'stop moving otherwise it wouldnt be good' she just said NO NO NO NO NO,, she.. didnt know what else to do/say...
i wish i knew the words to take your pain away.
is there anyway way that you could talk to the police because that is definately sexual assult.
i dont know how else to help accept you can always om me if you need to let off steam.
stay safe hun
I have tried persuading her to go the police but she wont :( I will keep trying though.
Hel my beautiful twiny
I know how hard this has been for you but from what you have told me you re not blowing this out of proportion, he sexually asbused you. Thats also child abuse. so he has commited to offences there. You know if you change your mind I will come with you to see the police. you dont even need to say anything.
I love you twiny it will be ok, you have me always
I'm so sorry this has happened. Please talk to somebody about this...report it to the police. That man does not deserve to get away with this! Please let Sammi go to the police with you. It will be okay. *holds close*
I wanna stay inside all day
I want the world to go away
..But maybe it wasn't sexual abuse/assault because he thought I wanted it otherwise he wouldn't have said things like "stop moving otherwise it wouldn't be good"... & worse things so obviously i must have done something to make him think I did...
Baby, it was sexual abuse/assault. It wasn't your fault. I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Please, please tell the police though. Sammi has offered to go with you. I know you probably feel so out of it right now and alone and numb and feeling a lot of hurt and mixed feelings, but you can't let this person get away with what he has done. It's wrong. It's so, so wrong.
We all love you here. We're all here for you. Keep writing. We are always here to listen to you and try and help you get through this.
I doubt it's to do with how you look. It's to do with power. Controlling. That's what this is about a lot of the time. The other person being in control. *hugs you* Baby, you will recover from this ED, you have the power deep inside, &you will get there. It'll take time, no doubt, but you will recover. YOU WILL. We all believe in you. Right now, you feel like you won't, but in time, you'll see you can do this.
i'm so so sorry this happened to you, remember it is NOT your fault in any way, you did nothing wrong and you did not want it, what happened is awful and totally wrong. the most important thing is that you are physically ok and safe. if you have any worries phsyically after the assault PLEASE get checked out. and are you safe so that it can't happen again? please make sure you are. what the others have said about reporting it to the police, please think about it, but its totally understandable if you dont feel strong enough at the moment. remember we are all here for you, your going to be ok. xx
this was defantly sexual assault if not abuse... I am so sorry that this happened to you... you really need to speak to someone though, you need support.
idealy the police... but I know that is scary and you may not feel up to it
why did this happen to me again?
I don't know... I wish I could answer you... but sometimes these things happen, and sometimes more than once to the same person...
you did nothing to cause nor attract this, really. it is no reflection on you.