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Old 19-03-2013, 06:58 PM   #81
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Woahhh, surprised by all the happy relationship stories :)
That probably just makes me cynical & pessimistic, but yay all the same.

Then again, my best friend's engaged with a guy she's been with yearsss & they were both on RYL at some point or another.



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Old 19-03-2013, 07:29 PM   #82
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Y'know, even thought my relationship with a RYLer ended I would totally do it again, so I agree with others, relationships between crazies can work, might be a little harder than normal but can work.

Ok, i'm not sure what i'm saying now haha.





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Old 19-03-2013, 08:29 PM   #83
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I also think that difficult as relationships with others with issues can make things more difficult I think that equally that greater level of empathy and understanding can in some cases be a positive thing :)



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Old 19-03-2013, 09:01 PM   #84
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I think relationships that start on RYL are just like any other relationship: some work and some don't.

I have been in three relationships that started on this site. All of them started off as friendship before. None of the guys I've been in relationships with from on here are on the site anymore.

The first ended badly, and lasted a few months. He was in England and I am in Texas. We had been close friends for over three years and met in person several times before/after starting the relationship.

The second ended so-so. Again, we were friends for many years. He lived an hour away from me. Lasted about three months. This was the relationship I was only in because we lived so close together - I thought it couldn't hurt to see how if it worked out for us. We didn't click at all, and it wasn't worth the hour distance for either of us.

The third relationship is the one I am currently in. He lived in Colorado, but moved down to Texas to be with me. He has lived here for a year so far, and we now live together. We've been together a year and eight months and I'm sure it will go on much, much longer. He is my best friend and love of my life (yay mushy :p). Also, it should probably be noted that I'm almost fully recovered now, and he was when we got together - so we're both in a good place to be in a stable relationship now. :)

I don't regret any of my relationships from on here. They all helped me in some way and made me who I am. Be smart, realistic, and safe about how much to trust people - and go for it! :)


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Old 19-03-2013, 09:08 PM   #85
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Thanks for all of the replies, I feel a bit better about going into a relationship now :) x

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Old 13-04-2013, 11:18 AM   #86
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Sorry for posting in this zombie thread, but I'd like to say that at the time we met on here both me and Rich (Dicky T) were in quite bad places, we became really good friends and by the time we got together in a relationship we were both in a much better place as individuals...we've been together 4 and a half years and are both entirely free of any sort of SH and are very very happy together. I can't say I know if it would be the same if both or one of us was in a bad place when the relationship started but I know he's one of the main reasons that I'm happy and healthy and loving life...

But also, if you have to question it, are you starting the relationship with a little bit of doubt already there?



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Old 14-04-2013, 12:24 AM   #87
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I have a partner I met on another forum and we have been together nearly 6 years. I think it's mostly about honesty when you meet someone over the net. For my partner and I we were pretty good friends about a year before we met and ended up together and then we have just gone from there. I think it's ok to have a little bit of doubt, but better if you keep the communication up with your partner



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Old 14-04-2013, 02:31 AM   #88
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Dick face and Irish are in a relationship. They are good, I see them on facebook sometimes.
And Midget and Voldy are getting married and sh*t.
Those are the only other success stories I know.
You forgot about me, biznitch. Though I rarely come on here, so that's understandable. 6+ years on, all good. (Y)




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Old 14-04-2013, 03:48 AM   #89
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Sh*t! Sorry Crabzorz! You should just talk to me more. :P




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Old 14-04-2013, 11:12 AM   #90
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Dick face and Irish are in a relationship. They are good, I see them on facebook sometimes.
And Midget and Voldy are getting married and sh*t.
Those are the only other success stories I know.
At what point do you count a 'success story'. How long do people have to be together for it to be a success? :)




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Old 14-04-2013, 11:19 AM   #91
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I met my partner on here...We've been together for nearly 5 years, engaged and have a nearly 3 year old :)



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Old 15-04-2013, 01:39 AM   #92
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Beyond three years at least. Even then it might not necessarily be a sucess.




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Old 17-05-2013, 04:42 PM   #93
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I'm currently in a relationship with a RYL'er (She ordered me to post in here, I wouldn't have done it otherwise :P).

It's going really, really well so far but it is still very early days. The relationship is basically built on trolling each other but it works well, it's how we roll.

I'm really happy in this relationship so yeah, go RYL relationships!

Edit, sometimes she can be a right bitch though, like I wanted to buy her a pet rock and she just said she would murder it!





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Old 17-05-2013, 04:43 PM   #94
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NO I DIDN'T TELL YOU TO DO THIS MIKE!

You said could you I said if you want... after you insisted I find the page in the frist place.

ETA: He won't buy me any llamas!



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Old 17-05-2013, 04:44 PM   #95
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I Was Talking About A Different Thread >.>





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Old 17-05-2013, 08:42 PM   #96
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Tried it once with (BendyAli) it did not work at all. I could never date someone from here again.

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Old 17-05-2013, 08:51 PM   #97
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I nearly made a worthwhile comment but it wouldnt be me if i did.

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Old 17-05-2013, 09:18 PM   #98
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Saying that though I do miss her every single day. I wish things could of worked out alot different.

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Old 17-05-2013, 09:36 PM   #99
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NO I DIDN'T TELL YOU TO DO THIS MIKE!

You said could you I said if you want... after you insisted I find the page in the frist place.

ETA: He won't buy me any llamas!
It was soooo obvious!!




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