Sorry for posting so often and about the same sort of issues. I'm not sure when I should go and see the psychiatric team at A&E for suicidal feelings. My psychologist keeps telling me that I need to reach out to the services that are available and then mentions A&E. What would they do if I was feeling suicidal but was trying not to act on it? Should I only go if I am in immediate danger? I have been suicidal for almost 6 months and have a plan, a back up plan and a date but usually I don't go through with it because I don't want to hurt my family. Should I then just hold on to my feelings on my own? I'm not good at talking on the phone and my old psychiatrist said to go to A&E if I wanted to talk to someone face to face, but I don't know at what stage I should go.
Would they tell me to go away if I wasn't immediately unsafe? If I went during the day would it be likely that I wouldn't be hanging around for so long? I really need some support. My psychologist said that he can't help me while I am in such a state, my GP doesn't know what to do, and my psychiatrist doesn't listen. I am not allowed to change my psychiatrist or have a CPN because I see a psychologist. I need more support. I am so afraid. Do you think it would be ok to go just to see what they might suggest?
I'd rather just die though.
Last edited by one_step_closer : 06-06-2009 at 01:58 PM.
I put it down on paper and then the ghost does not ache so much.
Don't try to calm the storm, calm yourself, the storm will pass.
could you call a helpline or something?
if youre feeling unsafe then id suggest talking to someone
rather than bottling it up and the feelings getting worse
*hugs*
I'm fine! Totally fine. I don't know why it's coming out all loud and squeaky, 'cause really, I'm fine!
helplines and support is good.
a and e .. well my experience has been going in after an attempt. but i presume you can get put in touch with something called hte crisis team, which is what i was given because they didnt keep me in hospital.. they come round each day to check on how you are and can keep an eye on you- very friendly and relaxed-
A tyrant spell has bound me And I cannot, cannot go
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Emily Bronte
I can't have a CPN because I see a psychologist. I don't know why though. I did change psychiatrist to a senior one, although it took a lot of effort.
If you are feeling like this you can ring NHS Direct. I've spoken to some lovely nurses and they can get the out of hours doctor to see you.
They won't turn you away from A&E, if you have any sort of suicidal thoughts it's better to go. Even if all you get is kept safe for a few hours.
Other than that, do you have crisis services where you are, cause as you probably know A&E isn't the most fun ever.
You need to reach out for the help, and if the services you have aren't what you need then A&E is as good a place as any.
I hope things start to improve for you.
"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. Make us all feel wonderful. We'll never forget."
never be sorry for posting sweetie *hugs*
maybe you could find out if u have a local crisis service in your area? if u talk to ur psychiatrist/psychologist, they may be able to put you in touch with them
xxxx
when i went to a and e, i nearly got sectioned, but went to hospital voluntary instead. i think maybe try crisis team? although i have no experience so i dont know what they're like, but if you feel youre going to attempt suicide in the near future id go to a and e
take care xx
Thanks. My area doesn't have a crisis service. This is what it says on a website about the psychiatric team at the hospital (who only work 9am to 9pm)
Quote:
A psychiatric/psychosocial assessment service is provided via the Accident and Emergency department at the hospital, with a view to referring on to the appropriate service for further input as required. This service is for people who present at A&E with overdose, self harm, and mental health problems.
It would mean that I could have a proper assessment, because my psychiatrist doesn't listen at all. But i'm worried about wasting their time.
Last edited by one_step_closer : 21-05-2009 at 10:30 PM.
I put it down on paper and then the ghost does not ache so much.
Don't try to calm the storm, calm yourself, the storm will pass.
You wouldn't be wasting their time, not at all. You deserve to be assessed properly and most importantly listened to so that they can make changes to how you are supported cos they obviously aren't doing enough at the moment.
x
you wouldnt be wasting anyones time hun, the people who are in those proffessions want to help people and definately wouldnt see you as wasting their time. if you need help and someone to talk to then dont be afraid to go there and find someone.
I still don't understand how much of a crisis I should be in before I go. *sighs* I can't even cope with the moderate levels of suicidality any more. My baseline mood is always so low.
Thanks everyone.
I put it down on paper and then the ghost does not ache so much.
Don't try to calm the storm, calm yourself, the storm will pass.
