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Old 06-05-2008, 09:56 PM   #1
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i'm heartbroken

i dont know where to put this. my bf dumped me because he cudnt handle a long distance thing but it's so hard because we still love each other. i know he still oves me because he told me. im heartbroken. im scared. im scared he'll find someone to replace me soon and im scared i cant handle the pain. it really hurts and i cant see a way out. iv been "better" for so long, longer than i've known him, and i dont want to fail over him. but the pain isnt getting better with each day its getting worse and i cant take it anymore. i know heartbreak is something everyone goes through and iv been through it so many times before but this time is the worst. i cant breathe. i havent eaten for days. i cant sleep. i shake all the time and i cant stop crying. i just dont know what else to do. the only thing i know how to do is to take a bunch of painkillers to numb the pain. i just dont know what to do.

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Old 06-05-2008, 11:05 PM   #2
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Remember itss not your fault!!! "he cudnt handle a long distance thing" So it was him! Maybe you weren't best suited for each other; if things weren't going to work out then it ending sooner rather than later is for the better.

The heart is meant to be broken ~ Oscar Wilde

You'll find the right person eventually!


Others will be probably be able to help better than me.

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Old 06-05-2008, 11:16 PM   #3
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I've been there.

It takes time. That's all I can say I'm affraid, someone else will crop up. I promise you.

If they don't you can kick me in the shin.
In the mean time, look at these boobies:

http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...ad.php?t=46153

Dicky!

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Old 07-05-2008, 01:30 AM   #4
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i think kicking Dicky would cheer anyone up ;]



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Old 07-05-2008, 09:39 PM   #5
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i can relate to this because im feeling this at the moment.... i do not know if this will be at all of any comfort but i do understand.... the pain feels like it will not stop, because youv given up your vulnrability, youv let down your guards, your all to someone for them to just end it. its difficault when you feel so much for someone. i know i still love me ex and i miss and crave him so badly evrey minute of the day and its been months.... but evreyone tells me it will get better and im hoping for this as you should. loads of other people care and love you.
i hope your ok. *hugs*
sorry this hasnt been very helpful
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Old 07-05-2008, 10:08 PM   #6
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If it's meant to work out, then it will. That much I learnt over the years...

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Old 07-05-2008, 10:19 PM   #7
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*cuddles* the same thing happened to me, excpet the stupid twat now has a gf in another city
anyway
In time you come to realise it obviously wasnt meant to be, there will be someone else.
But for now realise its okay to hurt, but not to hurt yourself.
If that makes sense. Just enjoy being nice to yourself, have a hot bath, eat some chocolate. Generally treat yourself.
If i can find it theres a brilliant poem called love after love, its all about this, and its good.
Its in the english AQA anthology if your taking GCSE english.

in teh mean time *cuddles*
im here if you want to talk


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