Wow that's one good post Matthew my friend... good reminder.
I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I'm out of control, and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.
~ Marilyn Monroe
~He accepts that ambiguity and compromise are a part of life, but he doesnít necessarily like it. Itís not his way to dwell in gray areas, not to try and resolve complex situations. And yet, if heís really honest with himself, this time he doesnít care. He surrenders to what he wants, not what he must. ~
Just thought I'd comment on this post because it is absolutely fab. I came back to RYL after almost a year's break today. I went into chat seeking information/opinions to help a friend who is in a tricky situation and found myself attempting to support someone, but this became too much for me and I ended up saying silly things because I was out of my depth. I felt guilty about this and was about to give up on coming back here, but reading this post reminded me about what RYL is about. Thankyou for writing it / stickying it. Very Important Post!