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Old 22-04-2011, 06:46 PM   #1
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Contains abuse - I don't know what to do

My dad's just broken my arm, I think. He attacked me, I fell and my arms twice the size it should be and black and blue.

I don't know what to do :(

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Old 22-04-2011, 06:58 PM   #2
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Sorry to hear that hun, are you safe now? If not can you go somewhere where you will be safe?

At the very least you need to go and get your arm seen to at A&E. And if you feel up to it report the attack to the police, which I think they may be able to help you with at A&E. It was very wrong of him to do that.

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Old 22-04-2011, 07:02 PM   #3
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I hope that you do get medical attention, also help with the traumatic emotional impact of this.

How are you feeling? Is there someone safe you can stay with for a while?

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Old 23-04-2011, 10:44 AM   #4
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How are you hun? Did you get your arm checked out and are you now in a safe place....Hope youre ok. Please update when you can xxx

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Old 23-04-2011, 11:15 AM   #5
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Yeah thinking of you.

Please update us when you can.i really hope you managed to get medical attention and are somewhere safe.

So sorry for all your going through.What your Dad has done is very wrong.Know we are here for you.And also feel free to PM anytime.i will always be glad to hear from you.

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Old 24-04-2011, 01:11 PM   #6
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Thanks.

My dad did break my arm :( I don't know what to do. I'm going to move out as soon as I can. I hate him :(

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Old 24-04-2011, 01:15 PM   #7
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Sorry to hear what happened.

Is there any way that you can stay at a friend's right now? It doesn't sound as though you are terrifically safe and it would be best if you could make sure that you are before you think through everything else. In a safer environment you can put your thoughts together and sort through them easier and more calmly.

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Old 24-04-2011, 01:17 PM   #8
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Did you tell the hospital staff what happened? There are organisations that could help you, I'm sure.

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Old 24-04-2011, 01:31 PM   #9
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My boyfriend managed to see to me, look at the x-rays and do most of the stuff at the hospital (he's a doctor and although he technically probably wasn't supposed to another doctor came and did, like, forms and things). He, obviously, knows about my home life so I said for now I didn't want it to go any further than him and the other doctor who was there.

I've been staying with him all weekend, haven't been home yet. Just not sure what to do about my stupid family anymore. I feel ashamed but don't know why :(

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Old 26-04-2011, 10:07 PM   #10
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That's nice of your boyfriend. And you have nothing to be ashamed of.
Please don't go home. It'll just happen again. Can you live with your boyfriend?



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