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Old 26-07-2015, 02:41 PM   #1
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RYL Members,

It is with a very heavy heart that I have to announce that Richard has sadly passed away. The details of his death are unconfirmed and it would be doing a disservice to Richard to speculate on that.

Richard was a member of RYL for a very long time and he posted both on the forum and spent a lot of time in chat. Richard was sarcastic, funny and sometimes offended people but he was also caring, sweet and would do anything for his friends. He had passionate beliefs and morals which he would always stand by.

I don't think I could make a thread about Richard without mentioning his son, who he loved dearly and would do anything for.

He will be sadly missed by members of this community. Richard and I clashed a few times on RYL however he was always there for me and I always counted him as a friend. Chat especially will be a much quieter place without him.

Rest in peace Richard.

Please feel free to use this thread to remember him.


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Old 26-07-2015, 02:45 PM   #2
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Very sad news. RIP Richard.

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No-one gets remembered for the things they didn't do.
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Old 26-07-2015, 02:51 PM   #3
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RIP Richard, I hope you have finally found peace x

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Old 26-07-2015, 03:00 PM   #4
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RIP Richard

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Old 26-07-2015, 03:05 PM   #5
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RIP Richard, I am glad you are no longer in pain.

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Old 26-07-2015, 03:47 PM   #6
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Oh God :(
RIP. We argued a lot but I'll miss you.

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Old 26-07-2015, 04:28 PM   #7
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The only other person I know that hated Nirvana as much as I do. RIP Richard.

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Old 26-07-2015, 04:40 PM   #8
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I primarily had dealings with Richard as a mod! But I always liked him and he was always an argumentative asset to RYL

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Old 26-07-2015, 04:49 PM   #9
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RIP Richard. Didn't always get on but we exchanged PMs a few times and he was very kind to me.
Very sad news.

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Old 26-07-2015, 04:56 PM   #10
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Oh jeez. Rip Richard. :(

How can the light that burned so brightly
Suddenly burn so pale?

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Old 26-07-2015, 04:59 PM   #11
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His soul was more beautiful than anyone who assumed there was nothing more to him than sarcasm. The last thing he ever said to me was, "you're a beautiful person." He was the beautiful person. He still is. His soul and his memory. It hurts so much thinking about all the times we talked but I'm glad those times existed. I'm glad he knew I loved him, or at least I hope he did. This is so ****ing hard. Those of us who knew him need a get together to talk about that crazy bastard.

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Old 26-07-2015, 05:28 PM   #12
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RIP Richard.

This is really sad news. We never spoke but you did make me laugh a few times on the boards!

I'm thinking of those of you who are grieving in this difficult time.

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Old 26-07-2015, 06:25 PM   #13
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I never spoke to Richard but I recognised him on the boards. You never realise what an impression someone makes online until they've gone. This is very sad and his friends and family are in my thoughts x

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Old 26-07-2015, 07:05 PM   #14
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He was in chat the other day there what a horrible shock

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Old 26-07-2015, 07:07 PM   #15
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I didn't know Richard, but I'm very sad to hear we've lost another valuable member of our community. I'm sorry I didn't know him, I think I'd have liked him, a lot!

My heart and thoughts are with all who knew him. Try to remember that it's normal to feel a range of emotions while grieving, and that's ok. And Ryl is of course always here for you all.

Rip Richard, wish I'd had a chance to know you.

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Old 26-07-2015, 07:30 PM   #16
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I've been thinking of what i could write, just don't have the words. Chat will be an empty place without Richard. RIP

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Old 26-07-2015, 07:33 PM   #17
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Like Liv, I sometimes clashed with Richard given most of our interactions were with me as a mod, but there were many occassions where we just chatted about life and he really was caring and, although a bit abbrasive at times, a good person. I know how much he loved his son and worked so hard to be in his life. may he rest in peace.

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Old 26-07-2015, 07:49 PM   #18
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Richard was not a fan of me at all, but decided to offer something of a truce because someone he trusted told him I wasn't actually too bad! That he trusted and respected his friend enough to stop arguing with someone who was really doing his head in made me realise that he was indeed a good guy who was a wonderful friend to many.

May he rest in peace and my thoughts are with his friends and family.

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Old 26-07-2015, 07:54 PM   #19
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I didn't really know Richard but this is very sad and am thinking of everyone who knew him x

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