Suicidal Friend
My best friend has been struggling with depression and anxiety for about 2-3 years now, and more recently paranoia, suicidal thoughts, and distructive urges. For most of this time I've been her only support, with her parents being frustratingly reluctant to accept her illness.
She's trying to find a therapist that accepts her insurance plan, and is a few weeks into trying new medication. She's getting really desperate. She texted me today upset because she didn't want to self harm, but she feels like has to. I suggested she go on a forum like this and talk to people who are going through the same thing, but I guess I was too pushy, because she stopped talking to me. She said she's too paranoid to talk to anyone about it.
So I'm here after running out of ways to help her for advice. I've been careful about what I say to her, but her paranoia is getting to the point where she barely trusts me anymore. I need to find a better, more educated way to help her. Does anyone have suggestions on what to tell her when she's feeling suicidal or wants to self-harm? And are there good resources she can use maybe online on her own until she can get a therapist?
On another note, she has urges to smoke, and has thought about starting vaping as a safe alternative. Is this a good idea? Or would that only encourage her urges to smoke for real?
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