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Old 09-07-2007, 01:53 PM   #1
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Cuddles?

I just want some support and cuddles at the moment to be honest.

I'm now at the heaviest weight I've ever been at (I know it doesn't help that I'm on my period and weighed myself in the middle of the day with clothes on, but still).. And I'm being a bridesmaid in a couple of weeks.. So I'll be on parade in a dress which I'm not even sure will fit me any more.

I'm just really low about my looks now.. =[

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Old 09-07-2007, 02:13 PM   #2
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Hey, Sorry to hear you are feeling so low.

You will fit just fine in that dress, Don't panic :) And i bet you will look stunning.
Aslong as you are healthy that is all that matters.

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Old 09-07-2007, 02:16 PM   #3
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hun, as you said your on your period, you've got clothes on and you weighed yourslef in the middle of the day, im sure you way much less normaly.

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Old 09-07-2007, 02:30 PM   #4
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*hugs u tight*
weight can fluctuate 5lbs even without being on your period, in the middle of the day or wearing clothes hun, helen is right, your weight is probably much lower than you think.

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Old 09-07-2007, 04:57 PM   #5
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*hugs* im sure you'll look fine. please dont let your weight get in the way of your day xxxx





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Old 09-07-2007, 05:00 PM   #6
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*cuddles*

You're still gorgeous, honey, and I hope you really enjoy being a bridesmaid - I bet the dress will look fab on you. As the others have said, your weight can fluctuate so much during the day, and things like drinking fluids, eating food, wearing clothes, going for/not going for a pee/no 2 .. will all affect it! Try not to stress too much and maybe if you're worried, take a more accurate measurement tomorrow morning, after you've peed but before you have breakfast or get dressed.

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Old 09-07-2007, 05:03 PM   #7
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Luce, you said yourself that weighing yourself at that time was a bad idea. And it was. Many people gain as much as 5lbs in bloating and water weight around their period. And your weight can fluctuate as much as 5lbs in the day, especially if you had your clothes on. So realistically you could be as much as 10lbs lighter than the scales said! Its not nice when you have period bloating and your clothes are a bit tight... I know how that is.

You can drink peppermint tea (although I imagine you won't be too keen on that), and there are things you can buy at the pharmacy to get rid of some of the menstrual water retention, if it's REALLY getting you down. Bananas are good for period stuff, too. But really, you just need to relax. How has your eating been recently hun?

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Old 09-07-2007, 05:09 PM   #8
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*Cuddles*
Luce no matter what the scales say you are beautiful. You always have been in every picture i've seen and I know you are going to be a stunning bridesmaid. It was the wrong time to weigh yourself anyway as the others have said. Try not to dwell on it. xx

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Old 09-07-2007, 06:12 PM   #9
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*all the cuddles I have*
I am sure that you will fit in that dress and I am POSITIVE that you will look absolutely stunning in it.
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Old 09-07-2007, 06:23 PM   #10
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*cuddles*
You will look beautiful in that dress sweetheart, I promise.
Periods are horrible, we all weigh more when we're on. And in the middle of the day with clothes on will give you a bigger number than it is really. Try not to think about it too much.
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Old 09-07-2007, 07:09 PM   #11
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basically cant really add anything,
but take care, hmm?
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Old 09-07-2007, 07:59 PM   #12
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*Big cuddles*

I'm sure you'll knock 'em dead at the wedding, you'll look stunning.

Periods are evil, not only do they make fake weight appear on the scales for a couple of days, they also seem to make us see and feel an extra 30lbs that really isn't there at all.



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Old 10-07-2007, 01:36 PM   #13
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*cuddles* you will look stunning at the wedding
i agree periods are horrible thing
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Old 10-07-2007, 06:48 PM   #14
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*big cuddles* Aw, I'm sorry you are feeling so bad Lucy. You are going to be beautiful in that dress, promise. *more cuddles*

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Old 11-07-2007, 12:04 PM   #15
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I tried on the dress yesterday because I was SO scared it wouldn't fit, but it did.
Dani said it fitted a bit BETTER because I've gained a bit so it's not so loose *giggles* oh the irony!
And my sister said I looked "like a princess".

Still hate my weight and the way I look though.. =[

Thanks for all of the support and kind words, made me smile! =]
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Old 11-07-2007, 12:09 PM   #16
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You may not see it, but you are beautiful!

Keep fighting.

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Old 11-07-2007, 12:16 PM   #17
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*cuddles*
I'm glad the dress fitted and everybody thinks you look more beautiful in it than you thought you would, even if you can't see it yourself. It was a really positive comment off your Dani and your sister too.

Don't listen to evil period weight, it makes the scales lie.
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Old 11-07-2007, 01:03 PM   #18
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*cuddles*

I love you my sweetheart and you really are beautiful, you looked especially beautiful at the wedding when you are praded round in your bridesmaid dress!

*is going to take lots of photo's*

As I said if you need any help with regulating your food intake then just give me a shout.

I lubble you!

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Old 11-07-2007, 05:32 PM   #19
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*Loves*

Thanks baby =]
Though I think you may've got your tenses mixed up a tad there!! =P

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