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Old 05-07-2007, 08:22 PM   #1
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Triggering (SI/ED) - I'm still around and been diagnosed....

Ok so I know I aint been on in a long time but I have no internet connection at home and the internet cafe doent always let me online. basically I am writing this because im a mess - physically and emotionally.

I am being referred to St Andrews near york (anyone been? any stories to tell either here or in a pm?) and basically have been diagnosed as borderline personality disorder with bullimia to put with it alhtough she wouldnt officially diagnose my ed becuase she could sense i was distressed at the first diagnosis and i cant tak eit all in one go.

now i dont know what to do

I have borderling personality disorder which i know what it stems from but i cant talk about it - not yet anyway.

im cutting more severly to the point where i am concerned abou tmyself and am purging alot.

basically i am waiting for my referral for therapy which is anythin from 3 to 4 month (almost impossible to see them sooner)

in the mean time i need to know you gyys are there.

in any way please talk to me. i cant cope

sorry to rant but i am a mess like i said....sorry guys. will try to upprot a best i can

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Old 05-07-2007, 08:55 PM   #2
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*hugs*
sorry hun, i dont know what to say right now, but we are all here for you, while you go through recovery, take it one step at a time hun, you can beat this!
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Old 05-07-2007, 09:03 PM   #3
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hey sweetie

im here for you. if you want to ever talk either msg me and il give you my msn, or pm me okay?

you will be okay. this is a HUGE step in recovery and we are all proud of you

i care about you, weve never spoken but i do care. honestly

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Old 05-07-2007, 09:07 PM   #4
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*Sends hugs*

At least they're acknowledging your issues and hopefully now they'll be dealt with effectively.

Take care honey.
We're all here if you need us.
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Old 05-07-2007, 09:12 PM   #5
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*huggles you*

I'm sorry to hear things are so tough for you right now. Hold on because you've progressed in getting help and things can change now. Ok 3-4months really sucks but, in the mean time you have us (you always have us) and also your GP. While I was waiting for my referal to go through I went to see my gp when things got hard just for a chat really. And friends/family to help you aswell.

I think it's good that they're acknoledging your problems and that your getting help with it.

Try and look after yourself sweetie!

Take care and Stay Safe xxxx



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Old 05-07-2007, 10:25 PM   #6
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*huge hugs*

soz dont really know what to say but im so glad to hear from you :)

please take care of yourself and hun ryl will alway be here for you.

pm me anytime

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Old 06-07-2007, 12:02 PM   #7
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*hugs* sorry your having a hard time atm i dont know what to say, pm anytime take care
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Old 06-07-2007, 12:20 PM   #8
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Is St Andrews the one in Harrogate? My friend was in there for ed and borderline... good luck




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Old 06-07-2007, 12:53 PM   #9
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Hey I know it's tough when you get a diagnosis, it's all scary and stuff, but hopefully it means they can help you better now that they know what's wrong. I hope you can get your therapy sooner, I had to wait ages for mine as well and it was hard. We're all here for you so I hope to see you around.

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Old 06-07-2007, 12:57 PM   #10
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Sweetie things will get better from here, it's sad to hear your having such a hard time right now :(
Talk to me whenever, i'm more or less always here,
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Old 06-07-2007, 03:41 PM   #11
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*great big hugs!*

soooo glad someone finally listened to you hun! :)

sorry to hear your so down tho :( feel free to email me/chat on msn if u want/need to :)
praying for ya hun

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Old 06-07-2007, 08:12 PM   #12
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thankyou so much for your replies guys - on V2 i seldom got noticed so to have hugs and posts ha helped a lot.

I let a friend see my egs to see how bad it is ad they were upset that i felt i had to ot that i had or how awful it looked but not that bad tbh.

st andrews is in harrogate as far as i know....is it ok there?

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Old 08-07-2007, 06:10 AM   #13
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I noticed you on v2. Don't know anything about st,andrews, sorry.

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Old 09-07-2007, 01:30 PM   #14
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it seemed nice when I went to visit. There was a nice atmosphere and the people seemed nice. They tailored the menus to the individual (amounts not the food). My friend wasn't that impressed but she's VERY hard to please and I don't think she'd be impressed by anywhere to be honest! are you doing inpatient or out or day? She was inpatient. There for borderline as well as ed.




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Old 10-07-2007, 01:51 PM   #15
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st andrews is not just for borderline...WTF

thats not what they told me at bootham. Helena are you serious in saying that they focus on the ED too.....slight panic atm then....

im presuming out patient but i have had her mention that day patient and possible IP may be a good thing...

you guys who knew me off V2 know how much i dont like the NHs or doctors (not even a little bit) but now to have them not tell me the truth....

sorry guys think i will have a little rant at you all later but now i am in a **** it mood cos i have a lovely afternoon planned in the park wit a picnic and a rather hot boyfriend

right im off - helena i may email you and if you have my number text me - its ends 738 if it sthe right one


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Old 10-07-2007, 03:57 PM   #16
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aimee I've got the wrong number for you! it ends in 352. I'll have a word with my friend, and see if it's alright if you speak to her, because I don't know an awful lot about the place and she knows loads because she was there. I'll send you a pm with my mobile number on it...




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