Contains sexual abuse - My sister
I am a female. This is the first time I have told anyone about this. When I was 5/6 years old, my older sister of 12/13 at the time used to sexually abuse me.
I can never fully remember the full details as I have probably allowed my mind to block it out. I can't remember when it started or how long it lasted, but I do know that it has had a massive impact on my life.
The weird thing is, I can remember not objecting against it but letting her do it.
Looking back in heindsight, I think it was her way of exploring sexually.
I am now 25 and me and my sister actually have a good relationship. We have never ever discussed what happened but I do know that I have massive resentment against her. We actually own a business together so spend a lot of time making decisions and planning - I can never fully be myself when I'm around her, it's like I hold back and don't show her the real me.
Does anyone have any advice that would be useful in moving forward. Should I confront her and talk to her about it privately ? Would that just make matters worse ? .
Last edited by Saviour99 : 22-08-2016 at 09:30 AM.
Reason: Wanted to make people aware that I am female