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Old 12-07-2020, 07:35 PM   #1
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Contains abuse - Definitely deserve it!!

In the past I have been yelled at by my dad and hit by my dad and I definitely did Deserved it my friends said (in high school) that i was abused but..... isnít abuse when you donít deserve it??

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Old 19-07-2020, 08:38 PM   #2
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What makes you think you deserved it? No one ever deserves to be abused in my opinion.



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Old 20-07-2020, 01:24 PM   #3
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No, you don't deserve it. Even if you were badly behaved it didn't mean you deserved to get hit. There are better ways to discipline. I went through similar and it took me a long time to realise it wasn't my fault, Yes I was badly behaved but it wasn't my fault that I got hit. You are in charge of your actions and an adult should know better.

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Old 24-07-2020, 11:33 PM   #4
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My dad and I was always fighting with each other and he would be angry with me because I was born with boarder line retardation and would yell and call me stupid and idiot..... so it is my fault...... I was born that way...... im not normal..... im nothing........

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Old 28-07-2020, 10:08 PM   #5
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Why is it your fault the way you are born?



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Ive thought that same thing alot and ive came to the answer because its my existence and I should have been a normal person and not stupid........


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Old 09-08-2020, 12:15 PM   #7
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But how is that your fault? You can't help being born with learning difficulties. And having learning difficulties is nothing to be ashamed of, we are all born differently with our own strengths and weaknesses. That's never a valid reason to treat someone badly.



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Old 25-08-2020, 10:48 PM   #8
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I deserved to be treated like that....... Im worthless.......... he was right...... im stupid and a idiot that’s what mental retardant means........

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Old 26-08-2020, 09:59 PM   #9
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You're not worthless.
So in this country we don't use the term 'mental retardation' but I know that it means someone with a significant learning difficulty. And none of medical textbooks say that someone with a learning difficulty deserves to be abused in anyway. You just have a brain which works a bit differently and that just means that you sometimes will need extra support, not any sort of unkind treatment.



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Old 30-08-2020, 09:35 PM   #10
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Thank you for what you said!!!!!!
Ive been told that I was stupid and a idiot for a long time itís hard to believe anything else but thank you so much for what you said!!!!!!

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