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Old 14-06-2007, 07:40 PM   #1
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Triggering (Sexual Abuse) - It was my fault....

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Old 14-06-2007, 07:44 PM   #2
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it's not your fault... most people who have been sexually abused believe its there fault because they didnt do enough to stop the person. but i'm sure there really was nothing you could do you were just scared...

i'm here for u if u wanna pm me...

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Old 14-06-2007, 08:06 PM   #3
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It was not your fault chicken. There's nothing you could have said or done to deserve to be treated in that manner.
You've got to stop blaming yourself, and accept that you shouldn't feel ashamed. Your abuser should.
Hang in there
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Old 14-06-2007, 09:32 PM   #4
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I hate me.
I want to disappear.
I'm sick of being here.
I hate that I can't tell my family.
I hate that he's won.
I hate that I did this to myself.

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Old 14-06-2007, 09:42 PM   #5
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*hugs* It's NEVER EVER a child's fault for being abused. Even if children explore sexuality they are NOT asking for abuse. You did nothing wrong, and it was never your fault. It was the fauly of the adult who took avantage of your little body. And even if your body reacted to it, that doesn't mean you liked it. It's just a physical reaction you can't control. *more hugs*

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Old 15-06-2007, 02:45 PM   #6
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you were a child, you couldnt have possibly asked for it, this was not your fault, this was the sole responsibility of the person that did this to you. you didnt do it to yourself

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Old 15-06-2007, 02:47 PM   #7
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you were a small (and very scared) child thats exactly why - you are in no way at all under any circstances in any way to blaime



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